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How To Get Your Lover Back

Aug 1, 2008
Most relationships can be saved following a breakup, regardless of who was at fault for the breakup in the first place. After a period of cooling off, it is more than likely that at least one of you, if not both, will be trying to think of how to get the other party back again. After a breakup, behavioral changes are common, such as not listening to certain songs which remind you of your ex. Some people instead will immediately try to salvage things; calling repeatedly trying to patch things up, or driving by their ex's home to check up on them.

Most fights which lead to breakups are due to one party or the other feeling as if they are unappreciated or worse yet, neglected. These feelings of neglect can eat away at a person's ego, even leading to depression. This depression may build over a length of time and lead to an argument getting blown out of proportion, causing a breakup. These problems can often be resolved, so there's hope if you have been wondering how to get your lover back.

Both of you will need some time to cool off after the breakup. Just because your ex isn't taking your calls right now, it doesn't mean they are definitely not interested in getting back together, it may just be that he or she is still angry with you, or even that they just want to know how badly you want to get back together.

Don't make the mistake of looking desperate, though. Definitely do not call your ex incessantly - while it is only natural to miss them and to want them to know that you miss them, remember reverse psychology. It often works when people are trying to attract each other and can also work in these situations.

Before even attempting to get your lover back, however, you both need to decide on your own if this is the right decision. Were the two of you always fighting about the most minor if issues or is one partner so jealous that it is in and of itself an issue? Be honest with yourself when trying to make this decision.

Do not even make the attempt to spy on your ex because this can trigger an event that you do not want to happen. Your ex may consider you a crazy stalker, and it may make matters even worse. Also, it shows signs that you do not trust them.

When you are in such a highly emotional state, it is all too easy to go overboard and take actions like this. You have a much better chance of reuniting if you calm down, step back and approach things more casually. When the two of you are ready to talk, do not discuss your breakup. Tell them that it may have been for the best, this will put you at an advantage in this situation.
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