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How to Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back - Three Tips

Aug 6, 2008
You feel as if life will never be the same. The love of your life has left you and you don't know where to go or what to do. All you can think about is the girl whose smiling face lit up your world. If all you want to know is "How to win my ex girlfriend back" then read on.

Breaking up is never easy, especially if you still have strong feelings for your ex girlfriend. Perhaps you realise it is not meant to be. Maybe things have been going wrong for some time. Whatever the cause, it has happened and now you are looking for a way to make things better, good for you.

A relationship break down is not always permanent. You must know many couples who have split up and got back together again. This is usually because they have managed to maintain the lines of communication. This is critical if you are to stand a chance of getting your ex girlfriend back.

TIP ONE

Stay upbeat and positive. Although you will be feeling bad and have no real interest in anything, you must appear to be macho and strong. No woman wants a man who's snivelling and moping around the place, begging her to come back and pleading for another chance.

You want to make her admire, respect and possibly even love you again so do not bombard her with phone calls or text messages. Whilst momentarily it may give her an ego boost, in the long term it is extremely unlikely to make her want to come back to you. Concentrate on getting back in touch with your old friends, get out and about, get involved in sport again (if you had let that slide) and get yourself back into shape, physically and emotionally.

TIP TWO

Talk to her friends and family to ascertain what they know or feel about the split. After all, chances are that they've spoken to her about it and, maybe she has opened up to them. You may hear of issues you were already aware were annoying her but you may also get a glimpse of other issues too.

It is best, at this stage, to get everything out on the table so that you know exactly where you stand and can appreciate just how big the task of winning her back will be. Do not be confrontational with her. It will do no good apportioning blame. Better to work on making the changes that she needs to see have been made. You must make the changes rather than just promise to change.

TIP THREE

Re establish the friendship first. Make contact slowly and without pressure. Make her laugh. Remind her of the things you used to love doing together. Do not ask her out on a date but ask to meet her for a coffee or something casual. If the love is still there and your ex girlfriend can she that you have changed in the ways she wanted it will not be long before she's agreeing to more.

These are only a few pointers in the process of winning an ex girlfriend back but trust me they can work very well, in some cases.
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