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Getting Your Ex Boyfriend Back - 3 Big Mistakes Will Doom Your Chances

Aug 7, 2008
You and your boyfriend have just broken up and you are realizing you still love him. You think there is no hope in getting your ex boyfriend back.

There is hope but you need to step back from the relationship. Just after a break up is when you tend to do things that will doom your chances.

Your heart is breaking, your emotions are running wild, and you are not thinking straight. Your first reactions after a break up are usually based on emotions and not logic. You will make mistakes that may destroy any chances of getting an ex boyfriend back.

3 Mistakes You Want to Avoid in Getting Your Ex Boyfriend Back

1. Do Not Act Needy

Acting needy is not a positive emotion but a negative emotion, an emotion that tends to turn-off men. You want to get a positive new beginning on your relationship with your ex boyfriend and you want that new beginning be from a position of strength, certainly not pity.

Do you really want pity to be the main plan for getting an ex boyfriend back?

2. Do Not Constantly Call, Text or Email Your Ex Boyfriend

He needs a break and you also need time to take a break, a true break from each other.

You need to stop calling, emailing, or showing up at places where you know your ex boyfriend will be. You might think if you do not do everything you can do right away then it will be too late.

But you really need this time right after a break up to put together a plan on getting your ex back.

3. Do Not Beg Him to Take You Back

This is the biggest mistake in the first days after a break up with your ex boyfriend.

You really miss him and you want to tell him that you will die without him, he is your whole life, or you can not be happy without him.

"Please, please, please take me back, things will be different the next time." Do not fool yourself, begging does not work. You will need a better plan on getting your ex boyfriend.

Begging is a position of weakness, not strength. You want a plan where your make your ex boyfriend realize how much he loves you and he wants you back because of his love for you. Pity is not love.

Your first emotions after a break up that leads to the above three mistakes are totally normal. You just want to get your boyfriend back, you miss him and you still love him. But these three mistakes will damage your chances of getting your ex boyfriend back.

There is hope you can get your ex boyfriend back, people get back together everyday. But they don't get back together because of needy, pity, and begging. If they do, the relationship will not last long.

You need to avoid the temptations of your first emotions and develop a plan that uses proven ways of getting your ex boyfriend back.
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