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How to Engage Successfully With Women

Aug 8, 2008
The biggest problem you have in finding dates, dealing with women, and being successful in your opposite sex endeavors is you. Your negative associations and your negative ideas about how well you don't deal with women is holding you back from really moving forward. If you want to be more successful with the ladies, then you really need to engage in a junk dumping session.

Junk dumping refers to clearing your mind of everything you've been told about dealing with women. It means getting rid of the issues that you carry with you and finding a new sense of confidence and freedom. It also means alleviating yourself of the misconceptions and prejudices you have regarding women, their wants, and their needs. They really aren't so scary, so dig into your junk and start dumping.

The first junk you need to dump is your impression that you don't deserve a highly attractive, capable, and incredible woman. Somewhere along the line we all assigned ourselves a "league" that we believe we can't ever disengage from. If you enjoy self limiting thought, then stick with that. Otherwise, you may as well just hang up your shoes and make best friends with your Playstation.

Women are not impossible. Remove that thought from your head. In fact, if you are willing to be straight up with women and deal with them on a basically honest and interested level, they are going to be more responsive to you.

Do not continue to believe that if you strike out with a woman that it is a reflection upon you, because it isn't. If she isn't interested in you, you haven't lost anything. Men seem to hang their entire self evolving image on whether a beautiful woman will talk to them or just pass over them. If she isn't interested, then she isn't worth your time. It is not a reflection upon you but a reflection upon her own inability to be comfortable enough with herself. Her judgments are her own. Don't take them on as your reality.

Dump the idea that you have to be perfect and totally smooth all the time. Women, who often truly are attracted to smooth and cool guys, aren't so unforgiving that you're not allowed a mistake or two. It's all in the recovery. If you laugh at yourself, you are being attractive to her. If you go into a deep depression, you're more likely to get a free dose of Prozac than a date.

When you are dealing with yourself, deal honestly. Take all that garbage that your parents, teachers, siblings, old girlfriends, and your boss have rammed down your throat and give those people their misguided opinions right back to them. The instant that you determine that someone else is right about who you are, then you have given up the greatest resource you have.

The way we perceive ourselves has a direct impact on how successful or unsuccessful we are when it comes to women. If we believe we are awkward, and are not manly or strong enough to attract a beautiful woman, then we won't. If we believe we have potential and that we are actually a pretty good guy with a lot to offer, then we will react accordingly when we come face to face with a highly attractive woman.

The truth of the matter is that what we convince ourselves is true impact everything we do in this life. When we believe we aren't deserving or that we aren't capable or good enough, then we a re drawn toward dead end jobs, women that don't appreciate and value us, and friends that don't really offer much to the relationship. After all, we are telling everyone through our actions that we don't need much and we don't value ourselves. By digging into your psyche and dumping the junk that was given to you over the years, you start to become refreshed, energized, and much more successful. It is most definitely worth the time investment to come out ahead and with a much better perception of who we are and what we are really worth.
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