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The Spark's Touch: Some Tips in Dating

Aug 12, 2008
There are many ways on how to find a date. Each has its own characteristics.

One would be online dating. And by this I don't only mean employing an online dating service. It could also be through chat or even in an online game.

Another one would be through text messaging. Many relationships have blossom just using their cell phones to communicate. Sometimes it starts with wrong send messages and sometimes through bridge of friends giving away your number.

Blind dating is also one way to find a date. But to do this you would need the help of friends or relatives.

Whatever you employ as a mean to find your future mate, there is one thing in common. And that would be on how to win them especially their hearts.

Be true.

By this I would mean you have to tell the truth, show the truth and feel the truth. This would benefit you in the end. If you show your colors upfront and not pretend to be someone you know you're not just to be liked, and he still likes you then you're lucky enough to have that person around.

Be accurate.

Whatever information you give to your mate, be sure that those are accurate ones. Never give false information. This could lead to disaster in your relationship.

Be prepared.

Unexpected events happens and you will just have to prepare for whatever it is that lies ahead whether rain, change of plans and even change of heart.

Be confident.

Confidence with oneself is good as long as it is not too much. Have just enough of it to send the message to the other person that you can handle things in a nice, gentle and smooth manner. Give them a sense of awe of your personality but never give them too much or it could be intimidating.

Enjoy the moment.

If you're on a date (virtual or real) and you do like the other person without any doubt, you just have to cherish each moment. Be spontaneous. Don't plan ahead on what to say or what to do. Plans can get screwed. Well, this only holds true if the other person is game to anything. You would know that once you get to know each other.

Be mysterious.

Don't provide everything all out. Let the other person discover some facts about you. People like puzzles and mysteries whatever walk of life you are in. And solving those is a challenge as well as rewarding. Same is true with all human mysteries.

Always get a hold of yourself.

Not all dating become successful. That is why you would need to always be in control of yourself whether it turns out great or had taken a wrong turn.

You can follow the tips. Whatever your decisions and thoughts are about dating would be entirely up to you. It will be a matter of time and a lot of patience before you could really land somewhere.

And I wish you good luck.
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