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Learn How to Get Your Girl Back - 4 Tips

Aug 12, 2008
After a breakup with the girl of your dreams, the idea of getting her back can seem hopeless. It isn't necessary to turn back the clock because getting her back is very feasible. Countless couples have broken up and reunited. So forget the pessimism, start using your brain, and take action.

1.) Men are supposed to be self assured and strong in our culture. They're the doers, they're expected to go out into the world and make it their own. Women intuitively expect this. The issue of sensitivity in men has been the subject of much discussion.

Women will find sensitivity appealing if it is combined with self-assurance and strength. Any behavior that is clingy or needy will be seen as a weakness. These expressions of desperation and panic shouldn't be confused with sensitivity. She will see you more as a child than as a man.

2) You shouldn't try to make things right with her immediately after the breakup. Relationship repair cannot be achieved overnight. Let things cool down between you for about 30 days.

It will also help a lot if the breakup was reasonably civil. The two of you will need some time for reflection and healing. It's important to understand the reasons behind the breakup before you try to contact her.

3.) Do not expect or demand that your ex admit to any wrong doing. Remember, she didn't approach you about getting back together, you are tying to convince her. Demands will push her away. Occasionally she will take her share of the blame but that is completely up to her. What is important here is that you should own up to your wrong doing without asking her to reciprocate.

4.) Begin a self improvement program. This means improvement on the inside and the outside. Lose that excess weight, improve your wardrobe, and do whatever else is required to make yourself more appealing. Think over the personal shortcomings that caused the breakup and resolve what to do about them.

What you do right after a breakup with your girl can decide how to difficult getting back with her will be. Time it incorrectly or bring up the wrong subject with her and you'll have made it very hard if not impossible to get her back. Use your head and make an effort to plan out what you will do.
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