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How To Get Your Man Back With No Worries

Aug 13, 2008
Breakups are a sad part of life, and some are more painful experiences than others. One of the saddest moments a girl can experience is losing the love of her life and not being able to get over it. All she can think about is getting back together again. Sometimes the reasons behind the breakup are pretty clear, but other times it's very hard to know. Sometimes a girl leaves a relationship with the perfect guy only to realize later on that she made a huge mistake.

If that's happened to you, probably the biggest question in your mind is 'how to get him back.' The first and most important thing to do is figure out why the relationship ended in the first place. This is the most important thing to know when trying to get your ex back. Be cautious, though, if the reason for your breakup had anything to do with controlling, abusive, or cheating behavior. You need to seriously ask yourself whether this is a relationship you really want.

If, however, you do realize that your breakup was a mistake and you are still in love with your ex, remember what it was that made him want to be with you when your relationship first started. Look at whether that quality is still there, or whether it has changed. If you are different now, this may be the reason he left. In this case, you may want to consider whether you are happier the way you are now, or whether you should go back to the way you used to be. All changes are not positive past a certain extent. One example of this is opening up to your partner. Sharing is a good thing, but sharing too much may be what has driven him away. You may want to be close, and to believe that if you truly love each other you will accept every detail about the other's life, but do you really want to know all the intimate details of his past?

Take your past memories with him and use them as a weapon, so to speak. Remind him of the great times that the two of you had together. Does he remember what he is missing out on now that you're no longer in his life? Wear his favorite outfit and make sure he takes notice. The purpose isn't to inspire jealousy but to open his eyes to what he used to see in you before the breakup.

Even arrange to meet him for lunch or coffee, or just give him a phone call. Explain how horrible you feel that the relationship ended, and you'd jump at the chance to be with him again. Be completely honest and explain your feelings. Make sure to give him time to talk too. Guys will appreciate an honest conversation that they're a part of, rather than simply listening to you. Through this conversation, hopefully you can learn what went wrong, and if there's a chance to fix it.

Try a few of these steps, and you may find that it's not impossible to get him back. You need to realize, though, that sometimes no matter what you do it may not work out a second time. You can't alter someone else's feelings, no matter how much you may want to. If he tries to take advantage of you or seems lukewarm about getting back together, you're probably better without him. But if he wants to try again with you, congratulations!
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