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Ways to Fall Apart After the Break Up

Aug 14, 2008
The relationship is all over, what do you do next? It is always hard to survive a break up and there is really no easy way to deal with it than just to go ahead and face it. You will have to gather all your courage to face the world again otherwise go rot in one corner and wait for pity to arrive which as you well may know will never be arriving.

There are five vis-a-vis ways to fall apart after a tragic break-up. However the entire choice would all be up to you.

1. Begging: You can either fall on your knees and start begging that he or she should take you back again or stand your ground and take the news lightly.

2. Promise: You can either promise to change into the exact person he or she wants you to be or look him or her in the eye and be proud that you are who you are.

3. Cry your heart out: You can either empty your tear-glands, shake up crying to let him or her know that you are really not fine or you can smile even though it is hard for you just to tell him or her that you are strong enough to hold out until the end.

4. Suicide threats: You can either yell out threats that you will kill yourself if he or she leaves you or you can quietly say you are not fine but you will strive to be one for him or her.

5. Blaming: You can either lash out at him or her, blame everything to him or her for all the pain you are feeling or you can simply thank him or her for all the things you have shared and part ways with your chin up then fall apart only when you are in the privacy of your room.

Those are five different ways you could always choose from. Whether you follow the bad side of it or choose its counterpart is entirely dependent on your choice. If you have never been into a tragic relationship end, you will likely have one in the future may it be sooner or later. There are also means on having to survive a break-up with class and maturity. This way it will boost your self esteem or the experience can entirely be messy and you will only end up more embarrassed than you should be. The choice is only for you to make. There will be nobody who will take that responsibility except you.

More often than not, the person who was dumped would feel all the pain and anger. This should be a normal human reaction. There should be no negative comment exchange between you two if you want to carry things out as less painful as possible. There should never be blaming and put out the entire burden on the account of a single person only. Such is not a healthy break-up and will only cause more water stirs than it normally should.

In the end of it all, you should beware of rebound romance. Do not ever get carried away of your overwhelming emotions just because your relationship is over. You have to be aware and keep always in mind that at this point of your life you are most fragile and vulnerable to emotions and even attention. Rebound romance is the quickest way to utter self destruction. It is a man with mask and when that mask is taken off it will only turn you off. So before anything is too late, do not ever attempt on rebound romances.
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