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A Quick 3-Step System on How to Get a Girl's Number

Aug 16, 2008
Many men out there think that stepping up to a woman and talking to her is the hardest step when approaching someone they are interested in. Being able to go up to a woman and talk to her without being nervous (or strange) is a huge accomplishment for many single men. What some men do not realize, however, is that getting the girl's number is the only way to seal the deal. Some men may be able to talk to a girl in an amazing way, but are unable to seal the deal. Getting a girl's number is important, and there are a few different tricks to know how to get a girl's number.

#1- Do Not Ask Right Away

This point cannot be stressed enough when discussing how to get a girl's number. Some guys who are somewhat nervous around girls have a habit of asking for their number right away. Think about this for a second; if someone random walked up to you and said "Hi, I hope you're having a good time. Can I have your number?", how would you react? Most normal individuals would have no clue as to what to do, and would simply laugh and ignore the request. If you are trying to figure out how to get a girl's number, be sure to realize that asking right away can be death as far as getting a number is concerned.

#2- Have a Conversation!

Conversation is incredibly important. A girl will not give her number to someone who she does not know, or does not like. If you want her to get to know you, you have to strike up a conversation. Conversation is a must when it comes to trying to figure out how to get a girl's number. By having a two way conversation with her, you can gauge her interest (as she gauges you). Gauging this interest can lead you to the perfect time in the conversation to ask for a number.

#3- Never End with a Request

Asking for a number at the very end of a conversation does two things; first off, it makes you look as if you have done this a million time. Two, it makes you seem desperate. Do not wait for her to say that she has to go before you ask her for her number. When of the most important things to do when trying to figure out how to get a girl's number is to know that it does not have to end a conversation.

Ask her for her number in the middle of the conversation - and then keep the conversation going. Find a normal breaking point to ask for her number. Once you have gotten it, strike up another conversation. This will catch her off guard, and show her that you are not just walking up to every girl asking them for their number.

If you use these tips on how to get a girl's number, you are easily more likely to impress a girl and seem original. When trying to get a girl's number, originality and sincerity is key.
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