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How to Get a Special Girl to Like Me?

Aug 20, 2008
If you are asking "How to get a special girl to like me?" we have several suggestions, but the outcome depends on the girl in question, your relationship with her (or lack of,) and your present interactions (or lack of.)

How to get a special girl to like me, when she doesn't even know I exist?

That's simple enough to answer: you make sure she finds out you exist! Try to know some of her routines: what school she goes to; what office she goes to; and what she does over the weekend. Accidentally bumping into her (not literally) can give you a chance to give her a smile or a nod of acknowledgement or even a helping hand when she needs it.

Here is one trick of the trade if you are asking "How to get a special girl to like me, when she doesn't even know I exist?" If she is living with her family, try to ingratiate yourself in their folds. Help her mother carry the groceries when she gets out of the car, or when father seems to be a grease monkey, try asking for car engine tips ... or anything to get the old man talking. Sooner of later, a more formal intro between you and your girl will be made by her own family. And since you seem to be a "nice boy," she's bound to give you more than just a cursory glance.

How to get a special girl to like me, when she has got a dozen guys hovering over her?

Ah, that is one of the most common situations. Here is a hot girl with a couple of great looking drones buzzing about. But if you notice, none of the drones are getting through to her? Why? Well, some of them might be intimidated by her presence; others are outright jerks. Since (we hope to presume that) you are not like that, try to approach her when you know that the drones aren't hovering about. Bars and other "social" places are definitely not the way to go. If she likes to visit the museums on certain days of the month; if she likes attending meetings for charitable institutions; if she attends a painting class, you could try your luck there. You do not even have to pretend that you know stuff. When you "bump" into her, try looking as if everything is way over your head, and you need her help. She doesn't need to be impressed, but you could try being impressed with her... knowledge that is.

How to get a special girl to like me, when she seems several steps ahead of me?

Ever watch the movie "Hitch?" Yeah, well... the situation is almost the same here. Women on top usually do not get too many offers for dates, simply because they are the women on top. Men assume that they must be ball-busting, egocentrics who could cut them down in an instant. Not so, says dating experts.

Most of these women climb to the top because they work very hard at it. And time for a little R&R is a bit constricted. If you could ask very nicely, outside her work area, (and you make it a point she knows that you are not doing this out of personal gain!) she might just say yes.

But before you do ask her out, you need to lay a lot of groundwork first. Make sure she knows that you are alive; that you at least, have a steady job (bumming is not a job!); and that you can pay for dinner someplace other than McDonald's. Try also to scope out the stuff she likes, and try to make her see that you are worth a chance. You could do this by showing her: good grooming and good social graces.

Nothing impresses a high-society girl more than seeing a presentable looking guy help an old lady across the street. Just make sure that the old lady in question actually wants to cross the street!
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