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The Truth Behind Break-Ups

Aug 21, 2008
Has this query ever crossed your mind? Why is it that women dump men? Time and time again you'll hear a man make the comment that his girlfriend or wife just broke up with him. It's puzzling, seeing as he treated her well and it seemed that he really worshipped her.

Did you ever hear that line "Nice guys finish last?" Well, there's a little truth to that statement. Many women aren't as self assured as they could be and any women who is a little insecure will sometimes wonder why a really great guy would want her. So, if you seem to be head over heals in love with her, she'll wonder what's wrong with you.

Are all women that way? Nope, of course not! Many women have the self assurance to know what they want in a man and they'll expect to be treated well or they'll get out of the relationship. But many females think that things are always better elsewhere. They would be better off with the person coming in the near future.

How should you respond when a woman unexpectedly calls off the relationship? You will not immediately contact her. It's obvious she didn't appreciate what she had at the time, so give her the opportunity to realize what she has lost.

Try not to act like you're devastated, but instead get back out in the world. Go out with friends, go on dates if you like. Actually, dating is good because you just might find a woman out there who has the self assurance to appreciate what you offer.

The reality check is deciding whether or not you can handle a relationship full of her insecurities. Think about it? Is she really worth it? You have to give your beloved the the freedom, the space and time to widen her horizons on her own. It is very possible to mend a relationship if the trust is present.

If you have not called lately, you can expect she will likely call you. Be friendly, but aloof. Don't share much about your life. And don't ask a lot about hers. And cut the call short. You want to allow her the opportunity to recognize you as her ideal man.

In short, she needs to prove herself as an appropriate girlfriend or lover. Let HER be the one doing the chasing, not the opposite. If you finally catch her, be mysterious. Keep in mind, she may be uncertain how to respond to a decent guy, so don't overwhelm her.

Am I telling you to treat her inappropriately? No way! Just stay a little more independent of her this time. These are the steps to save your relationship, if that is what you are really looking for.
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