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Why Your Girlfriend Left - 3 Possible Reasons

Aug 26, 2008
Generally speaking, girlfriends don't just decide to break up with their boyfriends for no reason. I know that women sometimes may not be the easiest creatures to understand, and some decisions may not make sense to the male mind, but it's actually pretty rare that a woman does anything without reason...and when it comes to breaking up with you that reason is likely something you did or didn't do. Luckily for you, I'm here to help you figure out what it was you did or didn't do, and possibly even fix it and get her back.

There are quite a few things that make girls itch for the door, but the majority of most cases fall into one of three particular situations. On the off-chance that your girlfriend didn't TELL you why she was leaving, I've taken the liberty of describing these top 3 reasons in the hopes that you may learn something and end up able to salvage your relationship.

1) The ultimate shatterer of relationships is one you really aught to know better than do...but time and again guys do it anyways. Most women simply will NOT tolerate their guys fooling around with other women. I mean, no durr right? It's a no-brainer...but believe it or not, there are folks who go "what did I do?" when it's quite obvious that you just couldn't keep your pants on.

I suppose I can understand that mistakes do happen, even ones that really SHOULDN'T ever happen...but rest assured that I have little to no sympathy for a person who's screwed up like this. Unfortunately for you if this is your problem, it can be exceedingly difficult to pull things back together in a relationship that's been broken this way. Unfaithfulness is a seriously wounding offense, and it leaves people very hurt and fragile. Take care if you try to make this work.

2) Another thing guys can mess up on is not giving their woman the emotional support that she needs to be getting from her relationship with you. Women are built more on the side of their emotions, and if she doesn't feel as loved as she really desires to be, problems can brew.

It really isn't that hard to make a woman feel loved. Just pay attention to her, real attention. Listen to what she has to say, and why she's saying it. Women are pretty complex creatures, and it can be a little difficult to figure out exactly what she's trying to get across, but if you spend enough time with her and pay enough attention to her, you'll understand her and she'll be happy.

3) Another of the big problems that really holds true for guys and girls is letting the relationship get too boring. When everything gets really predictable and there isn't too much entertainment in the relationship, your partner can get bored and the spark can kind of "go out." This isn't to say that your girlfriend doesn't still love you, but when there's little reason other than that to really hang around, why would she?

This is really the most tragic way for a relationship to die out. I mean, letting things get so stale with the one you love that love doesn't cut it anymore is just inexcusable. You can find things to do with her that are fun and spontaneous, I have faith in you. When the fun goes out of being with the one you love, it's just not right. Have FUN with her! Enjoy your love together, it's just wrong to let it get stale.

Well, these are just the main things that can help a relationship along towards its end. I'm not saying by any means that this article is the definitive work on relationshipkillers, but after reading this you should probably have at least an idea of where to start pulling things back together. Good luck, man!
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