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Is My Man Cheating - Is Confessing the Right Solution?

Aug 26, 2008
Recognition: Did it or not?

For a man, it's easy to tell the lies that himself believes, but definitely harder to have the power and ability to assert the truth, which points out why just 16% of men recognize their affairs to their partner.

Provided that human beings forecast a possible danger, they prepare themselves to face it properly, and usually unfaithful men oversee two alternatives: wether to lie and in the same time confuse their partner by defusing her grief, or confess the painful truth which involves heavier consequences.

Still, having in mind the victim's well being, she should let things go their own way, be patient and listen what the partner has to confess, without interposing in his avowal. There are also disadvantages when confessing the truth: the victim is obviously harmed by infidelity, but too much information might harm her and drive her mind crazy and full of agony. Often, the impact is so deep that some victims suffer memory traumas.

Adding lies

It is fair that when betrayal is involved, the healing process must begin by a sincere and honest confession made by the cheating person towards its spouse. Some people consider that it is much better to admit their sins, rather than being caught glaring. Still, it is advisable to make a righteous confession and from the bottom of the heart, because a selfish confession is quickly detected. Due to the fact that a confession implies emotional weight and the relationship's future depends on it, it must be frank and thoroughly explained.

As strange as it might seem, in order to avoid a future possible deception there are heavy reasons to spare the cheated victim of disloyalty, especially if the deeds were committed for a long period of time. This situation is understandable, because as human beings we have our own emotional and physical limits that cannot be lengthen endlessly.

Of course, a fair appraisal and honest discussion regarding the relationship must be held, but if after it the victim is still uninformed , then it seems that there is no point to continue and the victim must not be puzzled for this kind of discussion. The relationship needs a healthy airing that might be fulfilled without this.

But, when the unfaithful partner is prepared and willing to open up and discuss about his deeds, this decision might straighten out their problems and create a new direction for the couple to fallow.

Forgiveness

Surprisingly, around 16% of women think that they would forgive their partner for a one night relationship. This fact is a clear evidence that it is much better to confess when cheating as soon as possible, without allowing it to strike roots or by keeping it secret to affect the loved ones even harder. Finally, people have the power and ability to discuss, listen and forgive one another, and truly embrace each other's drawbacks. Obviously, when cheating, the husband must clearly be honest and avoid any more lies, because in this moment holding something back will make the spouse even more vulnerable.

It takes efforts and courage when being involved in a relationship, but when put in a situation as infidelity, the real involvement is proved by the choice made: either to confess it immediately, either to keep it secret from your partner and transform it into a possible relationship breaker.
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