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Are You a Flirt? The Secret to Flirting With Women

Sep 10, 2008
Are you a flirt? If you said 'no,' then it's important that you learn the secret to flirting with women in order to increase your self confidence and enhance your dating life. Learning how to flirt effectively with women is simple ' you need only think through the process, set your mind on a course for success, select a target to practice on and before you know it, you'll have more dates than ever before in your life.

Flirting is an art ' there's a certain finesse to it that you have to master to get over looking and feeling awkward. Luckily, mastering this art will take you only moments, with results that last for a lifetime.

Remember that flirting is all about the attitude you present. If you are nervous or shy or give off a creepy vibe, women are more likely to run away than give you their phone number. But if, instead, you exude confidence and positively interact with the woman of your dreams, she'll feel more comfortable setting a date with you.

Once you've taken the initial steps to put her at ease, it's time to start a conversation with her. You can discuss almost anything you want ' ask her questions about herself, make a comment about wherever you are, or tell her a funny joke to get her laughing. She'll love that you stay lighthearted when you're together, as long as you can also show her that you have a serious side.

One of the easiest ways to begin flirting with fabulous women is to have something eye-catching or attention-getting with you at all times. If you approach a woman in the park while walking your dog, she's sure to fuss over you both, and leave you an opening to strike up a conversation.

If you are wearing an unusual tie while attending a formal event, you may get her attention for more than just a moment. If you see a woman you are interested in showing attention to any of your features, take the opportunity to approach her and take the first steps in flirting.

Be careful not to go over the top when you are flirting with women - it's important that they aren't left wondering 'are you a flirt' and instead are left feeling like you have made them the center of attention. Sincerity is rule number one for successful flirting.

By actively listening to what they have to say while consistently maintaining eye contact, they'll see that you are really into them and that there is potential for more. Remember that in paying compliments, a little goes a long way. Do not go over the top in flattering the woman of your dreams; she'll see through you and shut you down. Instead, only make sincere compliment about striking features.

Most importantly, smile, smile, smile. If you are happy and you show it, your flirting will be successful. Before long, her thoughts will shift from wondering 'are you a flirt' to asking 'are you available.'
About the Author
Want to learn 50 PROVEN WAYS for approaching, attracting and seducing women? If so, take a look at Scott Patterson's Free Seduction eBook which provides 50 tips for instant dating success.
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