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Perfection Do You Desire It?

Sep 12, 2008
I'm driving through Brentwood this morning - on one of those days I don't particularly like. What I don't particularly like is the heat. I would prefer to live in San Francisco year-round - a few days in the 80s thrown in to lots of days in the 60s and 50s - a mixture of all different types of weather.

But speaking of mixtures, life is a mixture. It's really funny, because we all have this ideal. If you think about it, men have been masturbating to Maxim magazine models, Playboy centerfolds, Penthouse centerfolds since they were little boys and realized that something neat and fun actually comes out of their own dick and makes them feel good!

So if you think about it, men have been fantasizing about these women for most of their lives. Now what have women been doing? They don't have a dick, but they do masturbate, as we all know. Women have been fantasizing about that 6'2" guy - the one from the Bride magazines, Sean Connery playing leading man roles, George Clooney, Brad Pitt.

That's who they fantasize about - they fantasize about that tall, dark, and handsome man - how many times have you heard that? Tall, dark, and handsome.

Sex and the City even had an episode of tall, dark, and handsome. Mr. Big was what? Tall, dark, and handsome.

If you go on the internet, everybody has their ideal person there. Every woman wants a guy over 6' tall, and every guy wants a woman who is fit and athletic.

The problem is that the world is not 6" tall and in great shape. And most women are not skinny and petite!

So you need to embrace your body - you need to look at your body, and you need to look at who you are, and you need to become the most powerful you within your own body. The fact is that if you're a guy that's 5'6", and if you project your attitude, you project your voice, and you project confidence, a woman is going to see you as 6' tall.

Maybe you're not the ideal guy. But you are the ideal man. Think about it: she's got some fantasy guy in her head, and you walk over to her, and what happens is that most women spend their entire lives wanting to get swept off of their feet. Mr. Tall, Dark, and Handsome hasn't swept them off of their feet yet, but if Mr. 5'6" with a killer personality and great confidence walks over and claims her - claims her like the woman she is, makes her feel sexy, makes her feel wanted and desired - all of a sudden she can be yours.

If you look at all of the women in the world, not every woman is dating tall, dark, and handsome men. Most of them are dating just average guys who had the confidence and the balls to approach her, and the confidence and balls to really go over there and talk.

When it comes down to men, all of us are not going to be dating Maxim magazine models. It's just not going to happen. It sounds great in theory. If there was a factory somewhere abroad that FedEx shipped them over by the dozens - absolutely gorgeous women all of the time - that'd be great.

But the fact is that you have to embrace who you are every single day, and become the most powerful version of yourself. If you're not the most powerful version of yourself, you won't be able to sweep anybody off of their feet.

Forget about the fantasy. All of the women on the internet - all of you that are so narrow minded and you bitch and complain that men are narrow minded - women are so narrow minded on the internet it's incredible. All they talk about is wanting this perfect guy.

Just the other day I was reading this internet profile from a woman who was 39 years old. 39! She wants three kids, and the guy has to be aged 36 to 39. Hello? Can we say, fantasy?

Now let's talk about reality. Reality in this situation is the she's probably not going to get that. She's probably going to get something else, and you have to realize that what you're about, and what you project is what you will attract.

So if you are narrow minded in your search, and you're not open to things, you will never be able to meet somebody who will blow you away.
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Hailed on Fox News, The LA Times, The NY Times, Playboy and more... Legendary Dating Coach Launches a New Revolution For over nearly 20 years David Wygant has been earning the trust of American men and women looking to transform their love lives. (http://www.davidwygant.com)
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