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Dating Advice For The Unsuccessful Male Dater

Sep 15, 2008
Have you been single all your life and you now want to enter the playing field? Or have you been dating different women and do not seem to end up doing a second date? Maybe it is time to reassess your dating skills if indeed you are doing the right things to achieve a successful date. Here are some advices for the so called unsuccessful male dater.

Check your hygiene. You may not be aware of it but you may have serious problems with your hygiene that seem to turn your dates off. Make a breath check by going to the dentist to eliminate the problem. Also, ask a couple of strangers to tell you how you smell. You will definitely get better and more honest answers than if you ask your friend.

If you find out that you indeed have body odour, seek professional help as these problems are usually the trickier ones that cannot be solved instantly by experimenting on different types of deodorants, colognes and perfumes. These chemicals may even have a negative reaction on your body chemistry and might cause more harm than good. A hygienist is a good person to consult about it.

Never be late for a date. Most women find tardiness very rude and it often sets them off even before the date starts. If possible, offer to pick her from her house. This way, if you will have to call in late, she will less likely to be pissed off because she is in the comfort of her own home.

Assess your manners. An ill-mannered date is one of a female daters nightmares. Choose your words and crack healthy wholesome jokes. Never get drunk on a date as you might end up acting weird or being rude to people or even your date. Do not ever check out other girls when you are with a date as that is actually the rudest thing a male date can do to any woman. Never ask about sex if she is obviously not comfortable with the topic. She might think that you are a pervert because you seem to like talking about sex very much even on a first date.

Listen to her. The key to a womans heart is listening. But more than listening, you should engage yourself in what she wants to say. Respond and share your views about it. If she is sharing about her past dates and you seem to be uncomfortable with it, suggest that you may want to move on to another topic, probably more about what she would like to look forward to in an ideal date. If she talks about her family, be as attentive as you can. Learn as much as you can about her family, her background and be sure to remember it by heart.

Most importantly, remember her birthday as it might soon be one of the more important dates in your calendar. By the end of the date, you should have already know some personal details about her and her family, her job and other basic things about her. If by the end of the night, you realize that you do not even know where she lives, brace yourself for another potential let down.
Lastly, accompany her to her door.

The idea of her letting you know where she lives is actually a good sign that another date can be discussed soon. Thank her for the wonderful time and tell her that you certainly wish that you can do it again. If you like her enough, you may promise to call them whether or not you think she wants you to call her. She would actually send you some signal if she does not, which is not entirely bad but at least you will know at once. But hopefully and if you follow the abovementioned advices, she will be telling you that she would actually look forward to your call.
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Rodrigo Rehn is a Relationships Expert, Linux Systems Administrator, Web Programmer, PHP Developer and CEO of FaceRomance online dating for singles.
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