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How To Flirt With Your Text Messages

Sep 16, 2008
There's not much of a difference between flirting through text messaging and flirting in real life... except for flirting in text messaging is a lot easier.

Women

Most people will say that women have it easy when it comes to texting. That's because men do the approaching... and women probably send 100 times more text messages than men which makes women better at communicating.

Now here's where girls goof up: sending boring one-liners. For example, if a guy sends a message to a woman like, "Hey what up, did you go over to that party last night?" He can almost expect 50% of the time she is going to answer with a one-line answer that has no question attached to it. For example: "No I didn't." That kind of answer is considered boring and leads to nothing. Really, the cell phone should block those messages and return the message saying "put some life into your message." The worst part is, most of these women are ruining their chances and they don't even know it. Any quality guy will move on to more interesting conversations. Now, if a woman had a good response to that message it would look something like this: "Maybe. I didn't want to make you jealous." You see, now the guy can respond and start building off what you're saying, but most importantly, it's FLIRTY!

Men

As in real life, women and men differ when it comes to text messaging. So guess who does the approaching? Yes, men. Us men get the number and then we initiate the conversation. After years of coaching men on how to be successful with women, I have concluded that most men have no clue about how to text women.

As in real life, women and men differ when it comes to text messaging. So guess who does the approaching? Yes, men. Us men get the number and then we initiate the conversation. After years of coaching men on how to be successful with women, I have concluded that most men have no clue about how to text women.

Here's the best way to fix the problem, start sending messages that make women feel something. Let's take a boring line above and plug a little feeling into it: "Hey you, I was just in class and the teacher there reminded me of you, except she is a little cuter." Or instead of asking what they are doing, try texting, "Hey we are having a barbecue later on today, I think I can fit in one more space for you, you in?"

We all watch movies because they make us feel something, and women especially, are not involved in anything unless their emotions are in it. You will have more and more of the women you desire when you start figuring how to implement these tips into your text messages.
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