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Russian Women Are They Desperate To Leave?

By Joseph Carducci
Nov 22, 2008
Russian Women, what do they really want? Are they looking for a good man to marry, or just a way out of their poor economic conditions in Russia? I am asked this question quite often by my new clients. The honest answer is that there is a certain element who are indeed just looking to 'get out.'

The vast majority of these women are very interested in finding a good an honest man who they can fall in love with. And a man who will love them. To these women it simply does not matter what country he is from. Those women who are online and trying to just take money from us western guys are really very easy to spot, once you know what to look for.

Why would a woman be willing to leave her own country and all that she loves, including family, friends and way of life? Because she is lonely. She has not been able to find a man that she considers suitable as a husband. There is a large alcoholism problem among Russian men.

Additionally, Russian culture is largely chauvinistic and many men think nothing of getting married and then finding another girl as their mistress. The women are tired of dealing with these attitudes and,or do not want to see their future marriage end in divorce due to such circumstances. Despite these facts, there is still such a tiny minority of Russian women who are willing to leave their country for a chance at finding happiness.

How can we measure whether or not a woman from the Former Soviet Union (FSU) is even willing to accept a foreign man as a future husband? Since most of these FSU ladies do not have access to computers and the internet at home, and most do not a high command of the English language, they are forced to use help.

This help is usually in the form of a Russian women marriage agency. By posting their photos and profile with such an agency, these ladies are clearly expressing an interest in finding a foreign partner for marriage. Yet, the number of women who have actually done this is quite small. A good estimate is that only 250,000 FSU women have taken this step. This includes all of the Russian women, Ukrainian women, et al, that have posted profiles online. With over 250 million people throughout the FSU (190 million just in Russia and Ukraine) we see that this is less than 1% of the population!

With such a small percentage seriously looking for a foreign husband, it cannot be the case that most of the Russian women are just looking for a way out. Also consider the fact that a certain number of the women who have posted their profiles are indeed hoping to find a man for marriage, yet they may be unwilling to move out of the FSU and are hoping that HE decides to live in their country!

Another statistic to examine and compare is the divorce rates in both areas. For Russia and the FSU almost 75% of all marriages end in divorce. For most western countries, the divorce rate is around 50%. Yet marriages between Russian women and American men have a relatively low 25% divorce rate. There is clearly a trend here. If these women were only looking for a way out, they would simply accept the first man who came and then divorce him later, after coming to her new country.

So, what should we think about all of these stories we read and hear from the western media? When the old Soviet Union collapsed and western men started traveling and seeing these incredible women for themselves the media was telling us that it was only men who wanted to control women that were doing this. We were told that these guys were 'losers' or 'disturbed' individuals.

While it used to be true that many of the men who were interested in finding a Russian wife did not have a whole lot of sexual experience, it soon became clear that a lot of good, educated and financially well-off men were in this group, not a bunch of cro-magnas. So, the stories changed. Now we are told that if we find a Russian bride she can not be trusted, she is just looking to use you to finance a better life, for a plane ticket out and then she will leave you. The western media is controlled by a bunch of feminists and feminist sympathizers who mean to discourage you from being truly happy because it takes away their own power.

It is possible for you to find your happiness in the FSU. A wonderful, intelligent and sexy Russian or Ukrainian wife can still be found. Yes, the process takes a little getting used to, and yes you will need to educate yourself, but it is very possible. If you may be interested in exploring this possibility, we are here to help. Good luck in your search!
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