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Parenting A Teenager
So you successfully got them through the beginning stages and you and they both survived it. Now you no longer have to worry about diapers, potty training, choking on a hot dog or getting head lice. They have now made it over those hurdles and you have all survived. It is time to celebrate.
Don't be so sure. Be happy you are getting a full night's sleep, you will need it. You thought you got through the hard part, but you are only beginning, and here are some helpful hints to get you through.
Expect defiance. It is used to learn and test the waters. this is normal and only lasts a couple years. The best way to deal with a teen, especially if they are upset is to remain calm, and speak slowly and listen.
Be ready to ask and answer questions. Do not ignore or avoid issues that you may not like. This is not good parenting. Be open and honest and take a problem head on as they arise.
The most important thing to remember is that you are not a friend. You are a parent, and until they are old enough not to need a parent, then you cannot be their friend. Teenagers need support and guidance even when saying no is not the most desired. Do not fall prey to guilt, think your decisions through, keep your cool and stand firm.
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