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How To Approach Women Anywhere Part 2
Looking attractive to a woman is not so much about physical appearance, although of course this does help. It is more about the person you are or could be. Many men do not consider themselves beautiful people because they are not good looking and yet women are not as attracted to physical appearance as much as men are. So what does this all mean? It means that with care and attention to yourself, you could start dating women that you thought were too good for you.
The kind of things that you need to start doing for yourself are :
1). Physical.
You may or may not regard yourself as good looking. Whether you are or not is irrelevant, but what is relevant is how you look. There is no need to look like you haven't washed in weeks. Men don't like to see women like that so why should women be any different?
Clean your teeth regularly, floss, dress nicely and wear clothes that go together. If in doubt ask the stores clerk on what she thinks looks good on you - make sure it's a female clerk. If money is an issue use the likes of Ebay. Get a cool hair cut [ask a female hairdresser] or if your hair is receding then keep it short and neat. Besides these days the no hair look is in anyway.
If you're overweight and you don't like it or it hampers your confidence then do something about it. Being fitter means that you will look better and more importantly feel better. If you feel better you will act more confident because your self esteem will be higher. And what you thought was once out of your reach is not anymore. In truth nothing and no-one is out of your reach, but right from an early age we are conditioned to believe in limitations rather than possibilities. Break free of the shackles that have held you back. You are alive and that alone means that you're a winner. Now go after what you want.
2). Mental
This is where the likes of body language and voice tone are controlled from. It is regarded that over 90% of human communication is through the way we stand or fidget and how we say our words, note here it's not what we're saying that counts. So check your posture in the mirror or with a friend. The way to stand tall is to imagine that you are being held up by a piece of string through your head. By doing this you straighten your spine, your shoulders fall back, chest moves out and you can breathe better becuase the lungs now have room to move. If your voice is high pitched do something about it. Women like men to have a deeper voice. Record your voice and play it back and listen to how you sound. If necessary see a voice coach.
About the Author Alex West has had a chequered dating career. It was the break up of his last relationship that made him look into how people attract one another. You can read the rest of this article and join others updating their dating at Click Here
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