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The 4 Biggest Mistakes YOU Might Be Making Around Women

Aug 17, 2007
Attracting women is a trick thing!

Sometimes attraction isn't about doing certain things. Instead it's often more about NOT doing making certain mistakes.

In fact, Chris Rock said best when he joked how women instantly decide: "I'm going to have sex with him, just as long as he doesn't say anything to screw it up" (Paraphrased).

So what does this mean to you?

Well the truth is YOU might be making specific mistakes around women and you're not even aware that you're doing it. In order to be attractive to women, you have to first correct certain problem areas which instantly repel women.

That means if you're making ANY of the following 4 mistakes, it's vital that you stop what you're doing and work on eliminating these characteristics:

1- Lying

Okay we've all been guilty of telling white lies to women. But let me tell you my friend, if you're constantly lying to women to get what you want, then something bad will eventually happen to you.

No matter how much it hurts, honesty is the best policy when it comes to women. Even if you think the truth will hurt, it's better to be honest then risk being caught in a lie.

For instance if you're dating multiple women, be honest to each one. Don't live some secret life where each woman thinks you're in an exclusive relationship with her. This will only blow up in your face if your deception is discovered.

2- Weak character and commitment

A major thing women hate about some guys is when they have weak character. A man's word should be good as gold.

If you say something with confidence, it should be 100% true. In other words, when tell her you're going to do something, actually go out and do it!

Women love men who have strong character and attitude. By living up to your word, she'll be drawn to your confident aura.

3- Lack of confidence

A lack of confidence is probably the quickest way to turn off a woman. If you're constantly seeking approval from others, then you're acting like a weak person. In order to become a guy who can attract women, you have to know how to be confident in all situations.

However you should keep in mind that confidence doesn't mean you should act like an arrogant jerk. An attractive and confident guy is somebody who has pride in himself, but doesn't feel the need to show off.

Believe me, a quiet confidence will definitely be noticed.

4- Not approaching women

In today's era, guys don't make much of an effort to approach women. They secretly hope women will do all the work.

Unfortunately this never happens.

In order to attract and meet women, you must get used to approaching them.

Remember that women want to be chased. It's pretty simple...

Just walk up to women and start talking. Then if you know how to attract her, you can easily set up a date and make things more intimate.

If you can identify these 4 mistakes within and work at eliminating them, you'll be on the road towards becoming the kind of man women LOVE to be around.
About the Author
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