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Self-Confidence is the Key

Aug 17, 2007
For singles, self confidence is the key to avoiding the partner from hell. Singles must primarily count on themselves to find happiness and protect themselves from predators and partners from hell.

Unfortunately, for far too many singles, sex equates with being loved and being loved equates with self worth. Too many singles don't have the strength of character or self esteem to be comfortable with their own opinion of themselves. Self confidence is needed for singles to avoid the partner from hell. Unfortunately, there are singles who all too often invite the partner from hell into their lives because that person shores up their own weakened sense of self worth.

Singles without self confidence are vulnerable. They are an often trusting, insecure, but good hearted, and so open up their hearts to someone who turns out to be the partner from hell. This happens because, being good themselves, they cannot believe others aren't as well. Besides, they need love and this partner is offering it. Broken hearts and even broken bones can result from being unaware of the dangers and the warning signs of a partner from hell. The same catastrophes befall those who, because they are singles without self confidence, don't take the necessary steps, and learn the important tips that they are about to engage the partner from hell.

Here are some tips for singles on building self confidence and avoiding the partner from hell.

The first tip is that success breeds more success, while failure tends to breed more failure. The latter does not have to be the case with folks who have abundant drive and self confidence, however. In fact, most self-made millionaires will readily tell you that they went bankrupt or drove their companies into the ground at least once before they got the successful business thing down pat. But with those who lack self confidence one failure, even small, can tear them back down.

The best thing for singles to do then, is to start small in the self confidence building process. They should determine where their strengths and interests are and pursue some fruitful venture in those arenas. If, for instance, a less than self confident single enjoyed taking pictures with her or his Instamatic camera, she or he might take a local course that teaches how to use a more advanced camera, take some great shots, perhaps even sell them to a local newspaper or periodical, and even set up her or his own dark room. Meeting other singles in the course of this venture would probably ward off the partner from hell, as the single's ability to excel in this photography class would tend to keep the arrogant and domineering other singles away.

Now as this new-found photography talent comes to the fore for this single that previously had little self confidence she or he will try other new things, keep advancing towards self confidence and spend less and less time with a potential partner from hell.
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Jane Haller runs a site called along with info on dating and relationship on her blog at at http://www.Hot-Firefighters.com/blog2
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