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6 Steps to Eliminate Her Boyfriend and Make Her Want You

Aug 17, 2007
One question I get all from my readers goes something like this...

"I like (or have just met) a woman who is great, but has a boyfriend. What can I do to get rid of the boyfriend and make her like me?

Well these guys are pretty frustrated because many great women are already taken.

Maybe you've faced the same situation.

If so, read closely because I'm about to reveal my 6 step system for making a woman forget her boyfriend and want to be with you.

But before we move on, let me get one thing straight...

I don't think messing with an established relationship is a good idea. When you do this, you're creating a situation where somebody will get hurt.

So even if you've found a great girl, trying keeping her as a friend and dating only single women. Ultimately this will make you happier.

Now if you REALLY like a girl and desperately want to be with her, then try this system:

Step 1- Understand your situation

Before you try to neutralize the boyfriend, you must first explore your own relationship with this girl. If you find out you're in the "friends zone", then her boyfriend won't be the obstacle.

In other words, she will not want to date you even if she doesn't have a boyfriend.

So even if she ditches the boyfriend, she'll end up dating other guys.

When you're in "friends zone", you must first take steps towards making yourself a sexual threat to her. Don't act like her friend, act like a potential dating partner.

Step 2- Ignore the boyfriend

My first advice about the boyfriend is to ignore him. Don't bring him up or talk about him. If she only mentions the boyfriend once, then she's probably not that interested in him.

Don't let the boyfriend be an obstacle.

Instead continue to work on your attraction and flirting techniques.

Step 3- Never mock her boyfriend

Now if she mentions her boyfriend multiple times, you have to switch tactics.

To make her interested, you have to change her mindset and convince her that you represent everything she's missing in her life.

But the one thing you should do is never mock or ridicule her boyfriend. By doing this you'll only make her defend him- which is the last thing you want.

My advice is to be different. If she mentions him, say nice things and talk about how wonderful he sounds.

Which brings us to the next step...

Step 4- Talk about how great he is

Once a woman starts discussing her boyfriend, ask questions about him. Then as the conversation evolves, exaggerate his positive qualities to incredible levels. In fact, talk about him like he is a God.

A great technique I recently discovered is to say something like this to a woman...

"You guys sound SO cute together! I could totally see you two together in 10 years, married with 5 kids and a nice little house in the suburbs".

When you use this technique, you're latching on to her fear of losing her independence and sense of adventure. As a result, she'll start to wonder if she's never going to have fun again.

Step 5- Tell her you would make a terrible boyfriend

Once you're on the topic of her boyfriend, tell her how you would be a horrendous boyfriend. Compare yourself with the wonderful aspects of her boyfriend and tell her why you're different.

With this tactic you want to describe yourself as an adventurous guy who lives a fun life and could never settle down with one woman. You want to make her think you're a fun person who is always having great times.

Step 6- Talk about your adventures

Once you've established yourself as a guy who would be a bad boyfriend, you have to make another transition.

You should tell her that while you're not boyfriend material, you would at least be a provider of fun times and excitement. Basically you're setting yourself up as a guy who would make a lousy boyfriend, but will be interesting to be around.

By combining this six step system with fundamental attraction advice, you'll be perceived as a guy who can provide women with excitement. Since many of them are in relationships out of convenience, she'll change her mindset and think of you in a sexual manner.

And once a woman sees you in this light, she'll be attracted towards you and your lifestyle. Then you can slip in there and steal her away from her boyfriend.
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