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The Best Way to Get Women Back to your Home

Aug 17, 2007
There is one question I get ALL the time from my readers...

Typically it'll be something like this:

"Scott, I'm pretty good with women. I can flirt with them and make them attracted to me. But when it comes time to make things more intimate, I have trouble bringing women back to my house. How can I make a woman want to go back to my house"

From the amount of emails I receive, this problem seems pretty widespread. Fortunately there is a very simple technique for getting a woman back to your home.

Here's how to do it...

First you must understand something about meeting and attracting women:

If you can't get a woman back to your house, you have NO chance of seducing or having sex with her. You can try every pick up or attraction trick you know, but they won't work if she doesn't want to go home with you.

The truth is you only need one thing to dramatically increase your chances of success. It's called:

TRUST

The only way a woman will want to be alone with you is if she trusts you. If you can prove you're a normal guy and not some wacko, then she'll feel comfortable enough to go home with you.

So from the moment you meet a woman, you have to act like a trustworthy person. Don't say or do anything too weird. Simply do things which will make her feek safe within your presence.

Now once you have her trust you have to make your request about going back to your house seem like a casual comment. In other words, don't seem too nervous or overeager.

Women can easily detect when a guy is high strung about getting them to his house. So you can't act too excited. In fact, make your request seem completely natural,

One technique which works incredibly well is to talk about something you have back at your house. All you have to do is mention it during your conversation. (Just make sure it's something which she would find interesting) For instance you could talk mention one of the following:

* A stupid pet trick

* A cool home video

* An art piece

* An interesting music

The key is to ensure you've built up enough excitement and expectation about this particular item. Now to make this work, you have to make sure you're within close proximity of your house.

One trick is to get a ride home from her. Then when you've reached your house, you can say something like:

"Hey I've got that _____ I was talking about. Come inside and check it out. But I'll have to kick you out afterwards"

When you say a statement like this, you're reducing the pressure of the request because you're not appearing to be too aggressive. In addition, you're creating a safe atmosphere, because you're not acting like a sex fiend. Basically you're acting like a confident guy who wants to show her something.

Then once she's inside, you can allow nature to take its course!
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