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Facing Timidity When Approaching a Woman
Many guys get shy and face timidity when approaching a girl. These guys are usually not socially awkward or shy around other men, but when it comes to going up to a girl and talking to her, they'll freeze up and not know what to say. Most of the time, they will back off and miss out on meeting what could be a really great girl. This article will detail and discuss how to avoid facing timidity when approaching a girl.
Girls in our society often grow up watching princess movies and reading fairytale books. They grow up with the belief that girls are supposed to wait around for their 'prince' to come to them, and make her fall madly in love with him. For at least the last few centuries, girls have also been socialized in such a way that in our society, if a girl approaches a guy to ask him out, it very likely implies that she has been with numerous men before, is bold and assertive. Many girls do not want to seem this way, so they simply flaunt themselves around and wait for a great guy to approach them.
Girls often love a guy who is somewhat confident. At least confident enough to approach her, give her a nice compliment, and ask her out. They mostly want guys that everybody likes and all the girls want, and the most popular guys tend to be confident. Even if you don't feel confident, acting like you are can make others believe you are. You don't have to feel timid when approaching a girl. The most important thing is to keep in mind that girls like to be complimented on something genuine. Telling her something like she has beautiful eyes, a gorgeous smile, great hair, or a cute nose, will make her happy no matter who you are.
One of the most important things you can do is keep in mind that when you approach this girl, you are probably going to make her day. Many guys seem to think that by approaching a girl, they will screw up and say something dumb. Does it really matter if you don't say exactly what you planned? Think about the worst thing that might happen. Perhaps, she will say "no thank you" after asking her out.
Maybe she will give a reason like she has a boyfriend, in which case, a nice girl would likely apologize. Either way, all you are doing is walking up to a pretty girl and giving her a nice, sincere compliment. You will be making her day, or at least be making her smile.
Don't feel bad if she says "no" after asking her out. After all, this just gave you some practice to try on somebody else. In time, you will see how much easier it will get to approach girls without facing timidity. And, because of your actions, you will eventually end up on a date with a girl of your choice.
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