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5 First Date Tips For Building Instant Attraction

Aug 17, 2007
How do you handle yourself on the first date?

This is an important question which a lot of guys ask! They like a woman and want to make a great first impression, but they don't know how to act when they're on this first date.

Well if you're one of these guys, have no fear!

In this article, I'll reveal 5 simple dating tips that'll ensure you build attraction and make an incredible impression on her.

First Date Tip #1- Remove your worries and expectations

The biggest problem you'll face on your first date is worrying too much about being perfect. While you want to make a great impression, you shouldn't worry so much about what to say or how.

A simple solution is to not worry about the outcome of the date.

By relaxing and not working yourself up, you'll come across as confident. Just remember that if the date goes badly, the only thing you've wasted is some money and time.

First Date Tip #2- Limit your time during the date

Another mistake you could make is plan out an extravagant and fancy event for the your date.

The goal of the date is to qualify each other for a future relationship. So at first, you're not sure if this woman will be somebody you want to be around for 2+ hours.

Instead of going for a fancy date, you should meet her for coffee or a few drinks. That way, you can have a quick exit strategy if it's not going well.

First Date Tip #3- Be in control of the date

Women love guys who are decisive and confident. By taking the initiative and planning out your first date, you'll show a positive quality to her. Furthermore, by controlling the date, you'll be able to choose an environment of your choosing.

First Date Tip #4- Flirt with your date

Now dates aren't always about exit strategies and qualifying each other. Most of the time it's about having fun!

The secret to a great first date is building rapport and attraction.

When you're on your date, you should have fun and flirt with her. If she is not attracted to you, then it'll be hard to build anything. So it's important make sure your having fun and flirting with her.

First Date Tip #5- Know when you can break the rules

The previous four tips aren't carved in stone. There will be times when you should know to break them.

For instance if the date is going well and you think sex is a possibility, then you shouldn't worry about limiting your time. All you need to do is use these tips as a guideline and know when to break them.

By adhering to these 5 first date tips, you'll have a lot of fun and excitement with women. As a result, you'll find that it's easy to build attraction and rapport with each of these women.
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