Artipot - Free Ezine Articles
 
Home » Society and Culture » Men's Issues

How To Avoid Premature Ejaculation-The Easy Way

By Amy Wells
Jun 25, 2009
Lasting longer in bed is a goal for nearly every man. One of the techniques of being a good lover is to avoid premature ejaculation, as women usually take longer to get aroused than men.

Because it takes the average woman 20 minutes to achieve orgasm during intercourse, someone with very little stamina is going to be an unsatisfying lover that leaves their lover frustrated. If you are with a partner, knowing how to last longer in bed is a key to a successful relationship.

Prolonged masturbation is the first step to lasting longer in bed. Stimulate yourself until are about to orgasm and then stop. Once you feel like you are going to ejaculate, stop touching yourself.

With this technique, called edging, you will learn the skill of will power is applied regularly, and it can make a difference. While it takes some practice ahead of time, its an effective tool.

Another good way to last longer is to draw out the sexual encounter. During sex, you can take your time by focusing on other activities such as oral sex, trying other positions, and kissing and arousing all of her body. The focus doesn't need to be completely on achieving orgasm.

Step back from your own penetration and work your magic with your hand or mouth to bring your partner to climax, or almost climax. Besides getting her ready for intercourse, sex play before penetration is a lot of fun in its own right. And by staying focused on the actual act of sex and what's going on right now, you can hold off ejaculation prematurely.

Your actual technique during sex is also important. Sometimes go fast, but never your fastest, unless you have to hurry, or want to be known as a premature ejaculator. Deep thrusts rather than shallow ones will also prolong your erection. Fast thrusts will only cause you to come way before its time.

Learning to slow down and relish the sexual experience is an important skill for men to master. Educating yourself about how to last longer in bed can make a big difference in improving your self esteem with the opposite sex.

Women enjoy a slow hand when it comes to love making. By taking your time, not only will this allow you to avoid premature ejaculation, but it can also deeply satisfy your woman and make her look forward to more sexual encounters with you.
About the Author
Please Rate:

Rating:

(Average: Not rated)
Views:77 
Print Article Email Article Reprint Article Comments (0)
More Articles from Men's Issues
Top Articles in Men's Issues