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Turn Your First Date Into a Second With a Trip to an Art Fair
First dates are always a little intimidating. It is the turning point moment in a relationship. If the first date goes well, a second is sure to follow but if it goes badly then its the end of the road. The location and activity of your first date is very important. If its too personal, the date will probably be overwhelming but if it is too crowded there's no room to get to know one another. one great spot to take someone on a first date is an art fair. Art fairs are populated, but also Allow a chance to talk and get to know the other person.
f you're sitting at home before your date trying to plan out what to talk about, that is the wrong way to do it. Your date should be totally natural, if you have to force conversation after the first ten minutes or so that is a bad sign. If you and the other person have a connection, conversations will most likely flow. There are always a few awkward silences, but no one can really ever escape those.
A good idea is to drive while listening to music, so when the conversation isnt going anywhere you can ask your date about the music that's playing. Another important thing to remember on a first date is how you present yourself. Everyone always talks about being casually late and things like that to appear cool, but in most cases those things don't matter. In reality, a girl likes when her date is on time. If you're going to run late, try not to be be more than a few minutes past your set arrival time. After that, it gets rude and obnoxious. People set time out to get ready, and by being late they get stuck, sitting with nothing to do while waiting for you. If you do get stuck in a situation that makes you late, give a call or text there way.
Your appearance also majorly affects your first date. Your outfit matters a lot. You cant look like you tried too hard, but you cant look like a slob. If where you are going permits, a jean and cute shirt is appropriate for either sex. Often dark jeans are always the safe choice. Light jeans sometimes put off a bad vibe, or too casual. However if you are wearing a dark colored shirt, light jeans may work better. The way you smell is also very important, as odd as that is. Don't put perfume or cologne on too heavy but putting it on can be a deal maker. People who smell good often are a huge catch.
Make sure your first date with someone is memorable. You need to show all sides of you if you can. Let them know that you are fun and spontaneous if you are, or sensitive and loving. Don't come on too strong however or you may frighten your date away. The first date can open a door to a relationship or close it. Even if you aren't looking for a relationship and just want to causally date, its still crucial.
About the Author Chuck R. Stewart and his family visited some art fairs on their vacation at the Jersey Shore. The Hamptons art fair was among the finest.
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