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How You Can Get Your Girl Friend to Become Your Girlfriend

Aug 17, 2007
Let me ask you a question:

Do you secretly like one of your female friends?

If so, you're not alone...

Many guys harbor feelings for one of their girl friends. In addition to being physically attracted to this woman, they want to be in a great relationship with her.

Unfortunately many guys make the mistake of expressing their feelings for their female friends. This never works because most women don't carry romantic thoughts about the guys in their lives.

Now if you're convinced that you want to turn that one girl in your life into your girlfriend, then I urge you to take a look at this 5 step system I'm about to reveal.

However, I have to tell you that these techniques can be little intense. So if you 're not ready to "shake things up" then read no further...

Step 1- Don't act like a woman's friend when you first meet

My first recommendation is to never act like a woman's friend when you first meet.

Rather then acting like her buddy when you first meet a woman, you should act like a potential dating partner. In other words, do the specific things that will place you in the "boyfriend" category instead of the "friend" category.

For instance, if you're the guy who is always there for her and listens to her like one of her girl friends, then she'll think of you as a girlfriend. If you want a woman to think of you as a potential dating partner, then your actions should demonstrate a confident and sexual manner from the moment you meet her.

Step 2- Remove yourself from her

Now if you're in a situation where you're "one of her friends" then you have to take a drastic action...

STOP hanging out with her!

This means you cease all "friend" activities:

* Stop calling her

* Don't email her

* Stop hanging out with her

Your focus here is to keep yourself at an emotional distance from her while you start working on the next few steps.

Now my advice is to not be a jerk about avoiding her. However, you should suddenly become a "really busy" guy who doesn't any time to hang out with her. So you can call her back if she's trying to get in contact with you. But make sure you're returning her calls on YOUR terms, not hers.

Bottom line is you need to stop acting like one of her girlfriends.

Step 3- Start Dating other women

When you've stopped talking this girl, you should start dating other women. In order for this entire whole process to work, you must make a decision about this woman.

Either you can stay friends or try to work towards making her your girlfriend.

When you date other women, you'll develop a confident attitude about your abilities with women. In essence, you'll see how she compares with other women. Perhaps you'll even discover that she's not as special as you once thought.

Step 4- Contact her after a period of time

Now that you've dated a couple of women, you should come to a decision about your "girl friend". You should choose to remain friends with her or attempt to develop a physical relationship. If you decide to want to make her your girlfriend, then you try to get back in her life.

Once you start to talk to her, you have to act like a potential dating partner, not like one of her female friends. In other words, you should act a confident and sexual guy who she would want to date.

Step 5- Treat her like a woman

Now that you're talking to this woman again, you need to behave in a way that'll make her attracted to you. This means asking her on dates, flirting with her and treating her like a woman.

The more you act like a MAN, the more she'll regard you as a potential dating partner.

Making your friend in your girlfriend is a hard thing to accomplish. Women typically classify men into two categories: friend or boyfriend. So if she only looks at you like one of her buddies, then you have to transform yourself into the kind of man she'll want to date.

While these five steps may seem a bit extreme, they're your best hope for getting her to like in a sexual way.
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