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First Date, Made Great, With a Trip to the Art Fair
First dates can be messy business. It is the turning point moment in a relationship. If the first date goes well, a second will most likely come to follow but a bad first date will end your relationship together. The location and activity of your first date is very important. If its too personal, the date will probably be overwhelming but if it is too crowded there's no room to get to know one another. A great place for a first date is an art fair. Art fairs are populated, but also Allow a chance to talk and get to know the other person.
f you're sitting at home before your date trying to plan out what to talk about, that is the wrong way to do it. Your date should be totally natural, if you have to force conversation the entire date it is probably a bad sign. If there is a connection between the two of you, conversations will most likely flow. There are bound to be a few awkward silences, but even people in relationships get those.
A good idea is to drive while listening to music, so when the conversation isnt going anywhere you can ask the other person about the music that's playing. Another important thing to remember on a first date is how you present yourself. You will always hear people talking about being casually late and things like that to appear cool, but in most cases those things don't matter. If anything, a girl appreciates a guy being on time. If you're going to run late, try not to be be more than a few minutes past your set arrival time. After that, it gets rude and obnoxious. The person will have spent time to get ready, and will be left sitting with nothing to do while waiting for you. If by chance you are running late, give a call or text there way.
Your appearance is also part of how you present yourself. Your ensemble is extremely important. You cant look like you tried too hard, but you cant look like a slob. If the location your going permits, a jean and cute shirt is appropriate for either sex. sometimes dark jeans are a better choice too. Light jeans can come off as trashy, or too casual. However if you are wearing a dark colored shirt, light jeans may work better. Your scent also is very important, as odd as that is. You don't wanna wear to much perfume or cologne, but putting it on can be a deal maker. People who smell good often are a huge catch.
Make sure your first date with someone is memorable. Its a great idea to show all sides of you if you can. Let them know that you are fun and spontaneous if you are, or sensitive and loving. Make sure not to come on too strong however or you may frighten your date away. The first date can open a door to a relationship or close it. Even if you aren't looking for a relationship and are looking to causally date, its still crucial.
About the Author Chuck R. Stewart and his family visited some art fairs on their vacation at the Jersey Shore. The Hamptons art fair was among the finest.
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