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5 Easy Techniques For Picking Up Women at Bars and Nightclubs

Aug 17, 2007
One of the most difficult places to pick up a woman is at a bar or nightclub! In this environment you have to compete with loud music and congestion just for a woman's attention.

Unfortunately this is typically the first place most guys will go to meet women. As a result, you're at a distinct disadvantage when trying to attract women in this environment.

As you can see, trying to pickup a woman in this environment is quite challenging! However there are a few techniques you could implement which will dramatically increase your chances of success.

Here are 5 ways you can make it easy to pick up women at bars and nightclubs:

1- Travel lightly

Traveling with a large group of guys is a quick way to decrease your chances of attracting women. In fact, when you're surrounded by many of your friends, you'll end up annoying or intimidating women.

If you want to initiate conversations with women, you should go out with ONE wing man. That way you can assist one another with the different groups of women you're approaching.

2- Strut your stuff

Your body language is a vital aspect of attracting people in a loud venue. Since women have trouble listening in this environment, they rely heavily on observing the body language of men. So in order to attract them, you have to show them something which they'll like.

Now in order to instantly attract their attention, you should show powerful body language and display confidence. This means taking up a lot of space, looking comfortable in this environment, and acting in a cool manner.

3- Be a fun and exciting guy

In the club/bar environment the fun and exciting guy is somebody who stands out in a positive way. Women are attracted to guys who can display exciting personality traits.

So when you're in a bar you need to:

* Have a smile on your face

* Joking around with your wing man

* Look like you're really enjoying yourself.

By showing off this trait, you'll look like a guy who is fun to be around.

4- Be cool

Women are naturally attracted to guys who have higher status. When you display this personality trait, you show authority and confidence.

You can display this trait by being relaxed and casual to the people who are around you.

5- Approach in unique manner

Because of the loud music, approaching and picking up women in this environment is really hard.

In order to display positive qualities when you're talking to women, you should use a unique way to initiate conversation. Typically this can be accomplished with an opener.

When you use an opener, you want to make sure that you're speaking in a loud and clear voice. That way you're projecting the confident personality which is important to show in this environment.

Now once you've initiate this conversation, you can work on further establishing your higher status and building attraction with the woman you're pursuing.

Picking up women in a bar and club environment is hard thing to do. With the information that you've learned in this article, you'll find it easy to stand out from the crowd and become the guy who can easily work this type of venue.
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