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3 Golden Rules for Using Laughter to Build Attraction

Aug 17, 2007
One of the best pieces of advice I've ever heard is this:

"If you can get a woman to laugh ALL the time you'll be able to get her into bed"

Yes, it's true!

There is a direct link between getting a woman to laugh and you're ability to build attraction. By using humor, you'll increase attraction and will be able to seduce her.

But there is one major problem with using humor:

90% of ALL men are doing it wrong!

While many guys know that laughter is a key to a woman's heart, they're using it in a completely wrong way. That's why it's important to understand how humor should be used.

In this article, you'll learn about the 3 golden rules for using laughter to build attraction:

Rule #1- Never use self deprecating humor

The most important rule for trying to make a woman laugh is this:

Self-deprecating humor should never be used.

Now if you don't have a dictionary handy, self-deprecating humor is any type of joke or action which points out one of your faults. It's important to NEVER use these types of jokes because it demonstrates lower status to women.

Your goal for interacting with women is to demonstrate higher status and establish yourself as a fun guy to be around. So your jokes and action should increase your status instead of reducing it.

Rule #2- Use humor to tease and mock

Instead of directing the humor at yourself, you should direct it at her. Yeah, I know you're probably not used to insulting women, but there is a fine art to using humor to build attraction.

Let me explain something about women...

Most of the time women are used to guys kissing their butts. Typically other men will shower women with compliments in the hopes of getting them into the bedroom. The problem is women grow tired of guys who use the same boot-licking and supplicating lines.

In order to stand out from these guys, you need to use your humor to tease a woman. While you should never be a jerk, you can build attraction by noticing her imperfections and telling funny jokes about it.

Believe me, you'll have a woman laughing hysterically if you can embrace this personality and learn to joke around with her.

Rule #3- Let humor be ONE part of your personality

The final rule is to know when to turn off the teasing and attempts at humor. Whenever you're in a conversation with a woman, there is a time to be funny and there's a time when it doesn't work.

As you've probably discovered, a woman wants guys who be something more then a slap-stick personality. In order for you to be seductive, you have to show other core personality traits in addition to humor.

For instance if you want to a seductive guy, you have to demonstrate things like:

* Confidence

* Initiative

* Intelligence

* Communication

* Interest

By having all of these personality traits, you'll be perceived as a higher status alpha male. Thus you'll be a funny guy, while showing other attractive personality traits.

Using humor is an important part of dating and seduction. By knowing how to properly use humor and make women laugh, you'll find that it's easy to increase attraction.

If can adhere to these three rules you'll stand out from other guys and will increase your overall success with women.
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