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5 Steps on How to Get Your Girlfriend Back

Aug 17, 2007
Breaking up with a woman is a hard thing for many guys to handle. While you want to move on, you probably still have strong feelings for this one particular woman.

Now if you're constantly thinking of your ex-girlfriend, then pay close attention. In this article, I'll reveal my proven step-by-step system to help you get your girlfriend back.

So if you're secretly pining for a lost love, then try to implement this technique into your life:

Step 1- Analyze what went wrong

Now the important thing to do before you try to get your girlfriend back is to take some time and think about what went wrong. For instance you should ask yourself:

* Is there another guy?

* Does she no longer like you in a romantic way?

* Has there been a dramatic change in her life?

* Are you doing certain things which drive her crazy?

The reason why you ask these questions is to determine if things are fixable between you and your ex-girlfriend. If she's with another guy or was harsh about the break-up, then you probably have LITTLE chance of getting her back.

So before you implement this system, you should first find out if you have a chance of succeeding.

Step 2- Change yourself

Once you've analyzed what went wrong, you need to make changes to your life. The main reason guys get dumped is due to a lack of attraction. So if you want to get her back, you must make subtle changes to yourself which demonstrates attractive qualities.

Now the reason women want to date other guys is these men provide excitement in their lives. Without even knowing it, you probably developed a pattern of wussiness with your ex-girlfriend.

In order to become an attractive to your ex-girlfriend, you need to develop attractive personalities. This includes manly characteristics like confidence, initiative, an interesting personality and determination.

If you're able to show these core character traits, then you'll have the attractive personality which ALL women want.

Step 3- Start dating other women

It might seem counterintuitive, but dating other women is a great way to get a girlfriend back. Now it's hard to explain, but women have a crazy logic. They are highly attracted to guys who are "preselected" by other women. By dating other women, you'll be able to trigger her jealous reactions.

Step 4- Become friends with her

Now that you've made changes to yourself and started to date other women, you should contact your ex-girlfriend. When you talk to her, try hard to get her hang out with "as friends". This means grabbing coffee, catching a bit to eat or playing a quick game of pool.

Once you're on this date, just act completely casual. In other words, don't try to convince her to get back with you.

Instead just show confidence and amp up your role as a friend. Then every so often make an allusion to one of the women you're dating. Don't be overt about it, but non-chalantly mention that you're actively dating other women.

Step 5- Proceed with normal attraction techniques

Since you're now talking to your ex-girlfriend, you have an opportunity to demonstrate positive qualities. Instead of trying to rekindle things with her, I recommend that you show exactly how much fun you can provide her.

So it's important that you treat her like you would with other girls. This means that you follow the basic attraction and seduction techniques which I recommend.

For instance, you should be cocky/funny, show confidence and act like you don't care about the outcome of your interactions. If you do your job correctly, she'll start to realize that she's missing out on a golden opportunity. Once this happens, she'll start to pursue you!

Being able to get a girlfriend back is hard for many guys to accomplish. But if you're smart enough follow these 5 simple steps, you'll dramatically increase your chances of getting her back into your life.
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