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The Perfect Valentine
Did you make plans for Valentines day yet?
In order to make it through Valentines day in one piece, you need to answer the basic questions: "Where do I go?","What do I do?"
Below we have outlined what you can do to make it a Valentines day she won't soon forget.
From the ideal Valentine's Day gifts to the ideal Valentine's Day desserts, this guide will cover everything you need to know to have a wonderful time with the girl who said yes to your question, "Will you be my Valentine?"
Valentine's Day can feel like a potential minefield, especially if you are in the very early stages of a relationship or going on a first date. This article will provide some advice on just how you can successfully navigate the challenges and have a perfect evening.
CHOOSING A MEMORABLE GIFT
One of the first major Valentine's Day pitfalls to avoid is choosing an inappropriate gift. The choice must be customized to the stage of relationship you are in.
The key is to choose a gift that shows that you have thought about that person in a special way. First dates and new relationships, can get away with classics gifts like chocolates and flowers. Once your relationship has progressed into a few months or years, look into gifts that show depth.
If Valentine's Day happens to land in the very early stages of a new romance (a few dates, before sex), it can be pretty tricky. In addition to the above, flowers are ok...but have them delivered prior to the date (sweet), do not hand carry them (try hard). If you do choose to do flowers, avoid a dozen roses. One or three is great. If you choose three, you can tell her "The first two represent you and I as individuals and the third symbolizes the two of us together".
Things change when selecting a Valentine's Day gift if involved in a periodic romance situation (friends with benefits, the occasional hook-up lover, or any other relationship where sex is the focus and neither of you want or expect more). Here you can have some fun, be adventurous, and buy a gift that reflects the foundation of the relationship. This is the time to buy the gift that is risque and represents hot sex in a sexy but never insulting or degrading way. The fun, not-quite-Victoria's-Secret lingerie, the velvet handcuffs, fishnets and garter belts, videos, and sex toys. Armed with a bouquet of chocolate covered strawberries, great massage oils, and a bottle of expensive champagne, you can turn it into a night you'll never forget...
Note: For those readers who are in a more serious relationship, the above gifts are fine as well, but only as a bonus, not the main gift. When it a long term situation, be sure to put some real thought and effort into getting something personal that you know your woman would appreciate.
THE DATE
With your gift in hand, its time to start the rest of your Valentines Day journey. One of the most important things to remember is that the date does not just start at night when you get to her door. Build up romantic tension by appeasing her senses, by sending well though out text messages. Let her know how much you are looking forward to seeing her tonight. Use each text as a count down. Make her excited by telling her that this is not just any date, and that the though of her brings a smile to your face.
You are the exception to the rule. This is the Valentines day you are going to get right. Any guy out there can give flowers and chocolates, and plan a simple dinner. But you are not any guy. You are the guy that made all the right plans. Now you are going to be the guy with all the right moves.
You are the exception to the rule. Take this moment to stand out and pass up other guys who did not think ahead.
THE PERFECT DINNER
After the date, you are going to want to have some alone time. Since it is Valentine's Day you have the perfect root to get her back to your place. Let her know you have planned for her a really amazing Valentine's dinner that you know she is really going to love. Once she is back at your place you can really kick up the romantic aspect of Valentine's Day to a whole new level.
Cooking for a women is one of the most powerful things that a man can do to show that he cares. Choose your ingredients carefully and you will be rewarded beyond your wildest dreams.
Once the meal is over, surprise her by bringing out a dessert tray. Here are some ideas to consider when choosing a dessert to serve:
Chocolate bars, marshmallows and graham crackers! You can rarely go wrong with making S'mores in the microwave. Even better, cook them over a fire. They're easy to make, taste great, and are just messy enough to provide finger licking opportunities.
Chocolates will stimulate a woman sexually, so use them wisely. The sexiest thing about chocolate is its taste and its unique melt-in-your-mouth quality. Try a bowl of strawberries and dipping chocolate. This will be amazingly fun and exciting. Make sure you have extra melted chocolate for finger painting. The body is a bare canvas.
ON TO THE ROMANCE
At the end of the night, its time to turn things from fun into romantic.
Give her a body massage: sensual, loving, and warm, with special oils (get those flowers and bring them to the massage table). Also provide a warm sheet so she can cover any areas of her body that get cold.
Valentine's Day is the day for romance - In whatever form makes sense for you and your special friend or lover.
About the Author Neil Strauss and his Stylelife Academy, possess the tools to make you a better pick up artist by teaching you how to get the girl you have always wanted by mastering how to havethe perfect Valentines Day!!!
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