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Do Not Make These Five Mistakes, Be A Good Sister

By Bonita Li
Nov 4, 2009
Parents always find that when the kids are quarreling with each other, it harms their relationships. It is important to teach the children to be respectful and peaceful, which would make their life happier and be beneficial to the whole family. Sisters, like brothers, also make mistakes by being too patronising, too caring, aloof or uncooperative.

It is crucial for sisters to strike a balance when interacting with their siblings. The followings are some common mistakes they make, with the suggested precaution.

Tip 1: Commanding the siblings. Younger siblings are always commanded by their elder sisters. This is not a respectful behavior. Nobody likes to get dominated and yelled at by others. Instead of being controlling, elder sisters should be more amiable and supportive to their younger siblings.

Tip 2: Refusing to compromise: Sisters may have very different opinion, preferences and personalities, but this does not lead them to be distant. Try to compromise a bit and have more tolerance, these will improve the relationships.

Tip 3: Not lending an ear: Being the elder and more experienced one, older sisters can play the role of a good listener. Be sure to pay close attention and give them useful advice as they go along. Youger siblings will be enlightened by the kind words and trust in you to keep their secrets.

Tip 4: Not spending time with the siblings: Sisters should spend time hanging out and having sports or recreations with their siblings. By doing these, they can experience the fun, support and love together. They are bonded naturally whenever they share experiences.

Tip 5: Eavesdropping: Sisters tend to be very curious of what siblings are doing and thinking, but sisters should try to avoid eavesdropping, which is offensive and makes you lose trust and respect from the siblings. Encourage your siblings to share with you rather than to eavesdrop.

If you pay close attention and not do any of those mentioned, you'll be respected and loved by all of your siblings. Siblings are helping you in retun be shaping you into a more self-confident and considerate paerson. Do not run away in times of rage.
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