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How to Read a Man When You Are Dating
One of the biggest obstacles in relationships is communication. Men and women communicate in different ways. Have you ever been talking with your man and suddenly feel as if you are speaking two completely different languages?
"I care about you, but right now I just cannot commit."
"You deserve so much better than me."
"I will call you."
Have you heard one of these? You no doubt have. They are classic lines that do not really mean what they seem to mean. They are proof that what he says is not always exactly what he means.
Saying What They Don't Mean
Since men have a habitual habit of not saying what they mean, you have to find a way to figure it out without going crazy. You can do this by learning more about male communication style and learning how to read body language.
With men the key to understanding them is knowing that almost always actions speak louder than words. If a man says one thing, but his actions are saying something different, then pay attention to the actions because they will tell you what he really is saying.
You likely put more stake in words because that is how women communicate. We usually say what we mean and our actions act as the cover up. You just need to understand that men are the exact opposite. Their words are the cover and their actions are the real deal.
What's Up With the Commitment Fear
The fear of commitment seems to be a huge deal with every man. This really is not completely true. There are many men out there who have no issues with commitment and who actually crave it as much as women. When you start to think every man fears commitment it can actually cause you problems, so forget the idea altogether.
If a man says to you that he is not ready for a commitment there is more to it than a simple fear of being tied down. For many men he is simply telling you that you are getting too close and he doesn't feel the same way. He may feel like being with you is getting to be something he has to work at. Men want a relationship that is easy and where they do not always feel like they have to be working to keep things together.
A guy wants what women want in a relationship - security, attraction, emotional connections. If your relationship is lacking these things then he will naturally want to move on. The whole thing with this is that, unlike women, men are not attached to the idea of being in a relationship just for the sake of being in a relationship. They want to have meaning in a relationship or just not be in one at all. So, if he says no to a commitment then chances are he wants out.
A Major No-No
The one mistake you can make that will just ruin all communication with your man is thinking that the way he thinks is just like you. Nothing will burn up your relationship faster than assuming you know what he feels.
Men and women are different and this is something you must accept. You need to figure out what he means when he says something. If you don't know how he feels then ask him. Never assume something if you have no real proof that this is what he really means.
Wrapping It Up
Looking at how men communicate, it is clear they are much different than women. Understanding the difference will help you to communicate better in your relationship. You know you have to watch him more and not take his words to heart. Then if you still have questions - ask him. Never assume you know what is going on in his head.
Watch his actions and use them to figure out the true meaning of his words. If he confuses you then tell him and don't just try to assume you know what he means. Make sure you are communicating good so your relationship and grow and flourish.
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