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You Know He Is Into You When
Often when we meet someone new we go into overdrive trying to decode their every word and movement. It's a mind numbing game trying to figure out whether or not they actually like us.
What I can't figure out is why we do this to ourselves. I'm no exception. As a relationship writer I've spent hours doing relationship self analysis. And I've concluded that fretting about a man's emotions is just too much hard work. It needn't be though.
Unless a man is sending you ridiculously mixed signals (shame on him), you should be able to listen to your gut to determine whether or not he's smitten. You can weigh the back and forth between you two all you want but at the end of the day, your instincts as to his feelings will probably be right.
However, for those of you who still want to read into things, here is a quick "he loves me, he loves me not" cheat sheet. And hey, if all else fails and you still find yourself confused, just ask him.
He talks to his friends about you
If you meet his buddies for the first time and it's clear that your existence isn't news to them, that's a good sign. Men don't tend to chat up their pals about women they aren't pretty interested in.
He calls to hear the sound of your voice
I could say something about calling you the day after your first, or even second, date. Sadly most men still believe they need to wait a week before calling, which is such an old and out of date notion.
Most men do wait a few days before calling a woman they're interested in. If he doesn't call, don't despair. Unless you hear from him on a Friday night at 11 pm because then it's all about the booty call. If that's all you want, that's fine. Just remember, booty call guy isn't likely to want to join you for Sunday night dinner with your parents. Aside from calls like this, should he call you in the next week or so to set up another date; he's interested.
He's really listening
Men who are taken with someone typically want to be a little sweet and romantic. And what's the best way to do something out of the way and special for his new lady? Knowing things about her. You have to know the facts before you can plan your romantic assault. At least, I hope most men are doing this, otherwise their attempts at romantic gestures will be generic and boring.
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