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Tips For Gay Dating Success
It can be tough on the gay dating scene. You're looking for a partner to share time with and connect intimately and you find someone who either wants to use you or isn't interested at all.
And then you come across the guys in total denial that still think they're straight, but still want to fool around with a guy.
How Do You Find a Healthy Balanced Gay Relationship?
Gay dating should be fun and fulfilling. Here's some rules that I've found work really good for connecting with a good guy.
Only Date Gay Men - Don't waste your time trying to get someone who is only considering what it would be like to be gay. Although they may be experimenting, you could develop feelings and they move on and you're left with a hurting heart.
Stay Fit - Gay men can be brutal about how you look. Ok, so gay men can be a little superficial. But we personally want someone who is attractive, so we'll get a higher quality man if we stay in shape.
Don't Give It Up Easily - Be different and make him work for it. Men always want to jump into bed quickly. If you're looking for a serious relationship, spend a few dates making out and holding hands before you go any further. Let the attraction build and talk about your futures together before jumping into bed. It'll weed out the guys who are only looking for a quick fling.
Play the Field - The more guys you meet, the more opportunities you'll have for a truly magical gay connection. If you don't meet any guys, you'll have ZERO chances of getting a hot gay guy to spend time with. Go out to more gay clubs, and spend time with gay friends.
Use Technology - It can save a lot of time by using gay dating services online. If you have an iphone, you can connect with gay men in your area virtually any time of day (well worth getting an iphone immediately just for that). There are other great gay dating sites that I recommend to all of my blog readers as well.
The bottom line is to use common sense. A serious relationship won't be built if there isn't a real connection and serious trust. Many people are only looking to hook up physically, but it can damage your self esteem if you are too promiscuis.
You also have the ability to just fool around without any commitment as well. If you are ok with randomly hooking up with hot guys, the opportunities are there if you use the right tools. I've met some really great guys and have had some hot fun beneath the sheets with total strangers too :)
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