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Do You Always Quit and Play The Blame Game?

Aug 18, 2007
You'll never be able to give your family what you want to give them if you quit. If you fall behind, my only response is, "So what." You don't quit. You acknowledge that you're a little bit behind in your online courses or the learning schedule you set for yourself and you need a little bit more time and you give it to yourself.

You don't quit. That's ridiculous. You just don't quit. Okay, so you're falling behind. It's like a batter in the batter's box falling behind in the count. He doesn't walk out of the batter's box and say, "Well I'm behind in the count." It's like 2 strikes and 1 ball, then you just get out of the batter's box.

No, you stick in the batter's box because you still have that chance. Just because a team falls behind in the game doesn't mean they quit. Well, you know what? We've fallen behind in the game, might as well just give up and quit now.

Why? Well, we were falling behind. They had the lead. It doesn't make any sense. Life is constantly shifting and changing. You're going to fall behind. Even when you get ahead in life, you're going to fall behind a little bit.

Life is constantly shifting and changing. You're going to fall behind. Even when you get ahead in life, you're going to fall behind a little bit. You have to learn how to handle these things.You just don't quit. You have to learn how to handle these things.

You just don't quit

Listen, if you give up on your Internet business, you might as well just keep your job forever and never try to do anything. I know that you are building an Internet marketing business because you want something bigger and better for you and your family, and you don't want to be tied down to your current job. But if you quit, you're making a decision that's going to forever keep you tied down to your job. Quitting doesn't create financial freedom, it creates emotional prisons.

Sleep vs. your dream

You want me to tell you something? Sometimes you can't go to sleep. You just can't go to sleep because you have to get critical things done. But it's not your lifestyle forever, it's not like you never sleep again in your life. Maybe there are a couple of days during the week where you don't go to sleep because you have to get this done. Maybe you turn off the television because you need to get this done. Maybe you tell the wife and kids, "Hey, not right now because I'm building this for us," and then you spend some time on the business. It's those short-term sacrifices that allow you to have the long-term benefits and rewards. Listen man, if it was easy, everybody would be doing it. If it was easy, everybody would be successful. Welcome to the real world of building a business. You just got smacked in the face by reality. Now the question is: Are you going to own up to it, put your belly to the bar and press through it or are you going to quit? You now know the reality of what it takes.

Forgetting the egg

It's like trying to make this a beautiful cake, but you stopped and you don't put all the ingredients in. You don't put it into the oven. So, how can you expect to have the cake? You quit midstream in putting together the whole recipe. So how can you expect to get results if you're not pushing through?

Being wary of partners

Now, let's talk about working with partners. Our students often have partners and work in teams. We have husband and wife teams, parent and child teams and people with partners. But listen, don't blame your partner. If your partner's coming up short, fire your partner. Say, "Listen, this isn't working.

You've got to go. Either you step up and you put your belly to the bar and we push through this together, or that's it." You need to do it by yourself or you need to get a new partner. But you don't allow those things to hold you back. Because here's the thing, there's going to always be something there that's going to give you reason not to do it Always. Trust me.

You're going to always have a reason to quit. What you have to do is find a reason to continue. Finding reasons to quit are easy. But finding the reasons to continue, you have to dig a little deeper for them sometimes.

I know the curve. And I know that it's not easy on you when you have all these other things in your schedule, and I certainly know it's not easy and it can be frustrating if you have a partner that didn't do what they were supposed to do.
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Samizr Khan teaches Integrity Marketing with blogs. Learn how to build a list & make more money online, visit his blog at www.samizrkhan.name.
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