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3 Great Dating Tips For Men

Aug 21, 2007
If you are tired of unsuccessful or mediocre dates, you may want to look to some of the online dating tips for men. Many of these tips can help you improve your confidence, communication and body language leaving her awed by the end of the night.

Dating is a mix of finding the right person, common ground with them, and keeping enough excitement in the relationship to make it last. Having the right tools and a healthy self esteem can help you succeed in making this woman like you and long for another date. Here's how.

1. Convince her to like you

This is where most men get lost in the speech, zone out and truly believe that either the woman likes them or does not, simple as that. They really do not realize their true potential at convincing a woman to really like them.

This dating tip is not one that falls in your lap, but you can achieve it with a little bit of practice.

Obviously there is some attraction there or she would not have agreed to go on a date with you, be talking to you or showing interest. So now, it is your goal to really convince her that you two belong together.

Body language and the comments that you make during the evening can take care of this for you. Make presumptive comments such as how great you are together, meant for one another and how wonderfully everything goes when you are together. Basically you are talking to her subconscious and programming it to what you want from her. Hypnosis works, even if you are not a professional.

2. No approval seeking behavior

This is one of the best dating tips you will find anywhere. DO NOT look for her approval. Whatever it is be assertive and explain how absolutely wonderful the topic is. For example, if you are talking about your career and it is not a hot career, then explain how great it really is.

If you point out the positives and are dynamic as well as being passionate about the subject, it projects this positive stance to her. That is the same with any other conversation or topic as well. Any time you put a positive slant on anything, others around you will likely pick up your thoughts and feelings.

This also goes along with another problem that many men face, do not kiss up to her. Be a man, for goodness sake. Play it cool and do not appear to need her yes before you do something. Women like men that are confident and able to make a decision then stand by it.

3. Talk about yourself, but leave something to the imagination

Conversation is a good thing and you do want to tell her about yourself, however, keep it to a minimum. Do not spill your guts and share your weakness or long lost secret. Same goes for your positives as well.

Leave just a little bit to imagination and let her wonder about a few things. If she feels like you are an open book, why is she going to want to pick it up and read any more. So, let her slowly finish the book, so to speak.

Along this same topic be sure that you do not jump off and share your feelings too quickly. This may scare her off and you can seem desperate or too attached.

You have plenty of time to share your emotional longing, but not too quickly. Give her little pieces of your emotions at a time, not a flooding river in which she feels like she is going to drown. The best way to resolve this and not get too carried away is to slow down and take the relationship just that little bit slower.
About the Author
Lee Blackspur is the owner of My-Dating-Advice.com which provides online and offline dating tips, advice and articles for men, women and teens of all ages and experience.
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