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Being Adventurous Will Greatly Improve Your Dating Life

Oct 9, 2007
If you want women to feel attracted and excited about dating you, then add some adventure to your life.

Most people want more adventure and excitement in their lives, not less. Thus, a man who demonstrates elements of adventure is very attractive to pretty much any woman. You can demonstrate your adventurous side in many ways, without having to head deep into the mountains for a weekend camping expedition.

Although, such offers can be very tempting to most women if you've built up enough comfort and trust between the two of you. Examples:

Not afraid of risk: Women are not sexually attracted to - or interested in dating - scared, timid males. In fact they resent them, befriend them or simply use and manipulate them.

By suggesting that you be 'not afraid of risk' I don't mean that you need to start driving like a maniac or jumping off buildings. But don't shy away from a little bit of risk. Women find danger incredibly arousing and doubly so if you make them feel safe during the experience.

Am I saying to engage in violence or put yourself in harms way? No. That would be insulting our intelligence as a highly-evolved species.

Think about this example: If the subject of public speaking comes up, don't say, "I am so scared of speaking in front of large groups of people! I can't think of anything worse."

You aren't looking for a replacement mother to shield you like she would her baby boy. You are a man taking on the world. Try this instead: "Yeah, there's nothing better than a captivating speaker...it's definitely a skill I want to develop more."

There are many ways you can demonstrate that you aren't afraid of a little bit of risk. Here are a few random ones so you get the idea. You're not afraid to:

- Try something new on the menu at a restaurant.
- Go camping in a forest.
- Project your voice in public places (i.e. speak confidently to a waiter in a restaurant, to a shop-assistant in a store, to people at your table, etc).
- Meet new people.
- Do new things.
- Escalate things to the next level with a woman.
- Decide to take her for a drive to somewhere you've never been before.

You 'Go Places': Many people run a similar path and routine week in and week out.

If you watched from about 1,000ft up in the sky, you would see thousands of people leaving their house, driving to work, coming back home, driving to work, coming back home.

Then, maybe visit a friend's house nearby, coming back home, driving to work, heading to the supermarket and driving back home.

You can be seen as adventurous by women, by simply going places. One weekend you're at the beach. The next your at a friend's place, the next you're checking out the view from a nearby mountain with another friend.

In the midst of all that, you're planning to check out a yoga glass in a couple of weeks. Next year you're planning to go skiing at high-altitude. You're feeling adventurous, so you are just going to do it.

Note: I'm not saying to do this all the time. Just break up the monotony and add some adventure to your life. It makes for interesting conversation when a woman asks, "So, what have you been up to lately?"

You Know of Cool Places to Go: If you start dating some of the most beautiful women in your area, you can bet that they've been wined and dined in most of the standard 'date places.'

While it's ok to go to a place she's been before, it can add an element of adventure if you know of some cool places to go.

A hip bar or cafe in a back street of the CBD, a really cool restaurant that you know will have great service and atmosphere, a trendy morning market where breakfast and lunch are the specialty; anywhere a bit unusual is great.

It will be exciting and memorable for her for all the right reasons. Women will assume that you know certain secrets about your city, because you''ve been adventurous enough to step outside of the norm and find such cool and exciting places.

Dating you will be interesting & exciting. Women will want to relax into your masculine direction and follow you along for the ride of their lives.
About the Author
Dan Bacon is the CEO of TheModernMan.com who provide dating advice for men.

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