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How to Easily Get Back Into the Dating Game

Oct 12, 2007
Okay, it happened.

You had a relationship (or a marriage) that lasted for awhile. But NOW it's over. She's gone and you're not sure what to do.

To be honest, the ending of ANY relationship can be a brutal experience for most guys. Your heart is still aching from the loss of your significant other, but you know it might be time to 'get back into the game'.

So what's the solution?

Well the obvious answer is you should start dating other women. But before you start talking to every woman you meet, you should follow a few simple tips that'll help you ease back into dating girls.

First off, you should take the right amount of time to get over your past relationship. Suddenly being single is NOT about trying to immediately have sex with every woman you encounter.

Instead, you should take enough time to become comfortable with the idea of adding a new woman to your life. Whether its days, weeks or even months, you must give yourself a period of transition into your newfound lifestyle.

Next, you have to start dating other women for the RIGHT reasons. Many guys make the mistake of trying to pick up women JUST to make their ex jealous. This is a HUGE mistake.

Whenever you meet a new woman, you should date her because you want to. Not because you're trying to make your ex feel bad.

A break up is about moving on. So you should only include new women if you're willing to make this change.

Once you're ready to date again, I recommend that you don't ACTIVELY look for a woman. What I mean is dating is like being 'released back into the wild'. There's going to be a bit of awkwardness as you readjust your skills at approaching and meeting women.

So instead of focusing on trying to 'pick up chicks' you should take a casual approach. Simply go out with your friends just to have fun. By doing this regularly, you'll meet women in a natural manner without feeling the need to try to pick them up.

Finally, after you've grown comfortable with the social scene, it'll be time to start approaching LOTS of women. Since now that you're back in a regular dating mode and you're not giving off the 'desperate vibe', it'll become easier to talk to women.

Just remember that getting back into the dating game can be weird if you're used to being with the same woman for awhile. If you make it a point to do in a natural manner, you'll discover that it's easy to do!
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