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How To Get Over A Girl

Oct 19, 2007
Rejection is one of the most feared concepts of men. In fact, survey show that almost 73% of men who were interviewed in a recent study conducted by a certain psychological clinic in the U.S. show how men abhor rejections.

However, some psychologists contend that men are more afraid of being dumped by their partners than by being rejected in the first stage of courtship and dating. This is because men have already developed a strong bond with his partner that it makes the adjustment a little harder.

So even if some girls appear to be so sweet and helpless, there are still many of them who can have the guts and the courage to dump any guy even if they have been good to them.

The reason? It is so varied that nobody could clearly identify the common reasons of most women who ditch guy on an instant.

So for those who have been in this kind of relationship and have been in this kind of situation, here are some tips that you need to know in order to rule out the girl who once made your heart melt and now broke your heart:

1. Stop adoring her

If you continue on adoring her, paying close attention to the memories she has left behind like her pictures, things will just be worst.

What matters most is that you should learn to understand that it is over between the two of you and your life must go on without her.

The point here is that there is no sense in giving all the attention that she used to deserve. It is different now, and by giving her the same adoration that you used to give her would only mean trouble.

2. Close contact

In order to break away from her realm, it is best to eliminate any ways of contacting her. Do not call her, get rid of her number. There is no point in calling her just to ask how she is doing. You will just appear like an old dog who begs helplessly for milk.

The best thing to do is to close any means of contact like emails, phone calls, snail mails, and even text messages through her cell phone.

3. Pour out what you feel

The problem with most guys is that they are so constrained on what they feel that they are limited to how they can pour out their feelings. In turn, the feelings linger on and continue to thrive inside and cause further heartaches.

Drink if you must with your buddies just to get rid of that bitterness. Once you were able to get rid of it emotionally, chances are, it would be easier for you to get rid of it totally.

4. Try to avoid everything that has something to do with her

If it means not to eat on the same restaurant that you both used to hang out r avoiding her friends, then, do it. The only way to get over a girl is to forget everything about her. If not, you will just keep on reminiscing endlessly on how you two were before and how she used to say she loves you.

5. Never try to get what you have given here

It is a childish act. Besides, you will only have more reasons to remember her if you will see those things that you have meticulously saved for just to give it to her.

6. Have fun with your friends!

It is not the end of the world. If you are hurt with what happened, just consider it as a lesson well learned. What is important is that you still have your friends to empathize with you.

Have fun. Get a life!

The bottom line is that men should not drool longer on women who have dumped them, especially for no reasons at all. What matters most is to start from where you have left off and begin a new and better life without her.

As they say, there are many fishes in the ocean. You can start diving for the big one later and save it for the feast. The important thins is not to jump to a new relationship too soon. Try to enjoy life first. Keep in mind that the ratio of men to women is 1:10.
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