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8 Hidden Secrets For Reading Female Body Language

Oct 28, 2007
Women are not the mysterious creatures that legend would have you believe. Yes, they do have unfathomable taste in music and an inexplicable habit of crying at Sandra Bullock movies, but when it comes to sex and dating their thought processes are surprisingly straightforward.

And with a little bit of practise, you can learn to read their minds.

You see, women's body language always gives them away. They may try to play it cool, but if you know what you're looking for their interest in you will always be glaring obvious.

So here are eight body language signs to look out for:

Getting Herself Noticed

You and that little cutie may not have exchanged a word, but if she's interested in you she'll soon make it clear. Is she being a little bit louder than necessary, laughing wildly and dancing madly, whilst glancing in your direction? Does she keep walking past your table when it's quite obviously not on the way to anywhere she needs to go? And does she completely fail to make eye contact when she passes? Yes? Congratulations - she's trying to grab your attention!

Eyebrow Flash

When you go over and introduce yourself, look for a momentary raising of her eyebrows. Most emotions are expressed in the face, and pleasure at meeting you is no different - if a girl is happy to see you, her eyebrows will flick upwards involuntarily.

Bright Eyes

When somebody is interested in what you have to say, their focus shifts rhythmically between your left eye and your right. When they fancy you, the flicking of the eyes gets faster, and they start darting glances at your mouth, wondering if they have the nerve to kiss you. They also stop staring over your shoulders - because they know there's nobody else room they'd rather be talking to.

Playing with Herself

If a chick is interested in you, she'll start trying to draw your attention to what she considers her sexiest or most feminine parts. Generally, she'll start playing with her hair, but you may also find she rests her fingers against her chest, begins stroking her thighs, or caresses her own face while she listens to you. Pay attention - not only is she subconsciously telling you she's interested, she's also letting you know exactly where she likes to be touched!

Playing with You

Girls literally cannot keep their hands off men they fancy! If she starts emphasising her points by pressing her fingers to your arm or hand, or inventing excuses to either tousle or tidy your hair, you know for sure that you're in there!

Getting Closer

When a girl's really into you, she'll point her knees towards you and turn her shoulders so she's facing you. By effectively turning her back on all the less interesting people in the room, she is making it clear that she would love to be alone with you.

Mirroring your Moves

If you find that you're lifting your drinks at the same time, or simultaneously crossing your legs or straightening your hair, you know you've made a connection. Acting in synch with each other demonstrates that you're totally focused on one another, and on where the conversation may be leading.

And Finally... Watch her Lips

I'm not just talking smiling here, although, of course, it's a very good sign! Her lips can tell you so much more. Whether she's biting them, moistening them or stroking them gently, if she's playing with her mouth it's because she's imagining what she else she could be doing with it - and what it could be doing to you!
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