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I Wanna Be Your Boyfriend - 5 Tips For Getting Her Back

Oct 31, 2007
Do you find yourself thinking about your ex-girlfriend night and day? Do you miss the way her voice sounds? How she feels when you are holding her? Here are 5 tips for getting her back.

Tip #1: Remain in your confidence zone: Women are attracted to confident men who know what they want in life. If your breakup with your lady put you into a tailspin of low self-confidence, you need to pull out of it and fly right. Your ex wants a man who can hold his own. At the same time, make sure not to come across as cocky, either . Yes, it is a fine line to walk, but you can do it. Next time you see her, just keep repeating to yourself: confident, but not cocky . . . confident, but not cocky. Yes, that's it.

Tip #2: Give her plenty of eye contact: One way to express both your confidence and love for your ex is to give her lots of eye contact. If you have not yet gotten back together, be sure your eyes do not reveal a man who is lost without her, wallowing in his loneliness. If you are the sentimental type, that is fine since women like sensitivity. When you are with her, just come from the place of "having" rather than "wanting." Express your confidence with your eyes and she will see the man she saw when you first started dating.

Tip #3: Do something new with your appearance: Women like mystery and surprise. When you show up to see her about getting back together, try sporting a new hair style, a new style of shirt, or maybe a new ring. Do not go overboard: be subtle. The point here is that you do not want to be predictable. Sprinkle a little bit of mystery into the equation and see where it goes.

Tip #4: Don't talk about dating other women: Contrary to what some men think, you will not impress her by bringing up how many women you dated while you were apart. Even if she makes direct or indirect references to having dated other men while you were apart, do not follow suit. While you do not want to lie, be sure to emphasize all of the things you did other than dating: hanging out with friends, taking a new class, starting a new hobby. You want to paint the picture of someone who can live while being apart from her but who needs her to make life complete.

Tip #5: Take her somewhere fancy: Whether you consider yourself "frugal" or a big spender, this is not the time to skimp on spending on your ex. Each time you see her, bring her to nice restaurants, take her flowers, and treat her well. You will not come across as trying too hard or desperate, but rather as a Romeo coming back into her life to rescue her from the doldrums.

Your ex-girlfriend, should she want you back, does not want a man who has been pining for her every night. She wants a man who exudes confidence, masculinity, and the willingness to treat her right. Show her you can be this man and start down the path of rekindling your love.
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