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Where To Meet Women For Dating

Nov 20, 2007
A lot of people playing the dating game will ask me this question over and over again. "Where Do I Meet Women?" Many people's usual response is single's bars and clubs. The people who usually ask me this already know of those places and those places aren't really their scene. So, when a man is faced with this dilemma, I usually give him this piece of advice.

Just about anywhere! That's right, you don't have to limit yourself to singles bars and nightclubs to get your dose of dating. Location is not really that important. Sure, those singles bars and clubs will have more available women, but those places usually have much more fierce competition if your pick up skills are not up to par. It is these skills you must practice and master before you break out of the idea that bars and clubs are the only place to meet women. It is these skills that are your real assets.

How do I master these skills? Just like anything else. You have to practice at them before you master them. Sometimes that takes a lot of trial and error. Be prepared for this. Approach women and start a conversation. Don't be afraid to get rejected. It is these rejections that will improve your approach and finally break you out of the location restrictions that are holding you back.

Bars and clubs are good places to practice. When you start out, go to those places as a way of practicing or honing your pick up skills. Be sure to try new things. Never stop learning. It is these skills that are the key to picking up women, not the location you are in. You can see what responses you get from your pick up maneuvers in these places.

As far as other places, as I said, anywhere you find a woman that attracts you is a great opportunity to say something new. A few choice places are places that YOU have an interest in. Enjoy sports? How about your local Gym or YMCA? These places have women that share the same interest. Restaurants, parks, and other public places. I have even heard of men that pick up women at the grocery store!

Now, once you have found a good place to find and approach women, hang out there on a semi-frequent basis. Do not be a lurker! These men are the ones who give off the creepy vibe. Trust me, women can see these men a mile away. They are the men at the grocery store who have been there for two hours and don't have a single item in their basket. It is best to be natural. Actually enjoy yourself at these places and women will be more receptive to what you have to say instead of putting up their defensive gates.

The key is not where you approach women, it is how you approach women. Every time you approach a woman, study the responses you get. Then, after awhile, adjust your responses from past results. Eventually you will see that women can be met anywhere. They real golden ticket is attracting them once you find them.
About the Author
Ryan Street is the owner of I Am Just An Average Guy Members Only Website. For all the tools to better succeed with women as well as a free 10 day mini course, go to http://www.IAmJustAnAverageGuy.com and sign up. You will find books, audio, video, and other tools to help you succeed with women.
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