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How To Meet, Attract And Approach Girls In Clubs

Nov 24, 2007
Recent surveys show that the popular and best places to meet girls are at bars, parties and clubs.

Clubs and bars are generally places where lots of girls hang out with friends, to drink, listen to music, dance and unwind after a days work, or after a week's busy schedule.

To go somewhere so as to meet girls, keep in mind that you have to choose a certain place that you enjoy, like and is comfortable with, in order for you to find and meet people that likes and enjoys the place as well as you do. Then you have a thing in common and this could be a significant factor in opening up a conversation later.

Meeting girls in bars can be quite difficult, since normally bars are very noisy places. So try to go to certain bars that are not too noisy. Bars having live bands can play severely loud music, requiring you to yell to one another.

When inside a bar, remember to hang around in open areas so you could talk to other individuals easier. Usually clubs have patios or a form of open-air section that can be an ideal place to hang out and have some quite conversation with a girl.

A relaxing and quite atmosphere, away from the crowd and noise inside the bar is an important factor. You must carry a good conversation with a girl effectively for you to obtain her phone number before you part ways.

Lighting also contributes to a calming atmosphere. Find a corner in a bar that is not too dim, as you need to see her expression as you go ahead and talk. If there is adequate lighting, you can see what you are getting, and determine if she is indeed worth your time and effort; away from the loud music, you will have a chance to get acquainted with her better.

At this stage, with no commitment at all, you already have an idea to continue the conversation and ask for her number, or to end the conversation because you simply do not like her.

Her are some helpful guidelines on how to meet girls at clubs:

1. Smile as you enter the club, as this certainly sends out good impression. Surveys show that average looking men who smiles often are found to be more attractive compared to handsome guys who do not smile.

The smile generally indicates that the man is charming, friendly, optimistic and expressive with what he sees and feels and most significantly, he can be easily approached.

2. Seat yourself in the bar and observe. Find a group of girls which you think can welcome your company or a group that sparks your interest. Approach them with a smile and offer them a drink. Start by asking them politely if you can join them and if they answer yes, then introduce yourself and start a conversation.

3. When you do not like a particular girl in the group that you have joined, then you can just enjoy their company or go to the next table of girls.

When you like a particular girl in the group that you have joined, then you could focus your attention to her and ask her or talk to her in a casual conversation, and later ask her to dance.

4. After the dance, take her out to the patio, away from all the noise and now is the time to start a conversation. Every time that she talks, listen and show her that you are interested to what she is saying, and what she has to say.

5. Be yourself. The conversation will flow smoothly when you are just being yourself and comfortable with all that you are saying.

6. Be honest. As long as you are honest with the information as well as the views that you are relating to the girl, then you will never be nervous at all, and you will not stumble in any mistake.

7. Remember here, that while you are talking to the girl and determining as to whether you like her or not, she also maybe in the same position as you and also determining whether she likes you or not. So do not be so overconfident. It will take you nowhere if you like her yet she does not like you.

8. When the time is right, ask her phone number.

Remember, if the girl you like turned you down, or you did not find the right girl in the club that you are in, still congratulate yourself, you did gain a lot of friends and who knows, one of them might turn out to be the girl for you in the future.
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