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Tips To Have A Successful Date

Dec 1, 2007
This is the occasion that you've been desiring - to have your dreamed successful date put into reality- and there is no room for hesitations. But could you achieve your dream date? Well, obviously, you need to start from the very top and that is by asking the person you are very much interested to be out on date. But again, how could you?How could you invite that person? Is there a need to be aggressive? Or Is there a need to play safe? Well, the tips bellow will surely give a great help for you.

Below are just simple but very important tips that you can rely in times that seem you find it difficult to ask a date for a person you like. For men, these tips really can give a great help to get the person that you desire to go out with you for a date.

First, you have to know the reason or reasons why you are asking a person to go out with you. If you are really certain with your objective, you are surely can convey your idea (in any medium) in your most comfortable way.

If a person says no, do not take it heavily. You must learn to accept the fact and wait for the a chance that time rolls in you favor.

For you to be able to express what you want to say, you can have a little bit of practice so that you are able to condition your self and can say what you want to tell to that person that you want to be out with you for a date.

You must be sure that you are packed with essential details for your planned date. The person that you are asking for date may say 'yes' and if you are not prepared with details (example, where will you go?), that would be a little bit 'turn-off' so be prepared as much as possible.

Of course, make it sure that you can answer whenever a person asks you on what is the purpose of the date. There is no need to make a huge flatterer and what is important is that you are able to make her to feel good even just in a simple way.

Another thing is, you should not pressure the person you are asking for a date. If she says 'no' then you have to respect her decision. Remember that pressure could just lead you to negative outcome.

And also, you have to make sure that you do not stand person up. That means, do not make her to expect for nothing. When you ask for a date, be sure that you mean it and you will provide what should be provided.

Do not treat the person unpleasant if ever you fail to get her 'yes', just move on and do not be bitter with it. Some time, you'll be able to have a successful date, you'll see.

Drinking some beer in order to gain confidence is a 'no' because it may just discourage your date and may push the situation to worse. Be confident, naturally.

Do not ask for a date when she is with her friends. Though, the more the merrier, this is not ideal for a first time date, you need to inculcate privacy.

Above are just useful tips that when noted will surely help you to achieve a successful date.
About the Author
Stephen C Campbell is a Master NLP Practitioner and Personal Coach, learn more about love and relationships at http://www.lovelettermastery.com/
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