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Signs Of A Cheating Wife - Is She Or Isn't She?

Dec 31, 2007
Some signs of a cheating wife are quite obvious, if you'll allow yourself to see them. If you happen to see receipts in the trash for condoms or lingerie, or perhaps see the actual items, but they are never used during the times you are intimate with your wife, that's a pretty strong sign that she's got something going on.

Secrecy is another of the top signs of a cheating wife. Hushed phone calls or deleting internet browsing activity is an indicator that she's keeping secrets from you. Perhaps she's just planning a surprise for you, but there may be more to it. Online secrecy could also just be her indulging a fantasy that she would never follow-through with in the real world, but this suggests that there may be some aspect of your relationship that she's not fully satisfied with.

Another common sign of a cheating wife is sudden changes in sexual desire. Some cheating wives will begin to avoid sexual contact with their spouses, while others may seek it out more than usual. Both increased and decreased sexual interest can also be signs of other things, such as hormonal changes, so this sign of cheating needs to be considered along with the presence or absence of other signs.

In addition to changes in her desire for sex, there may also be changes in her desire for certain sexual positions or changes in how she behaves during intimacy. Perhaps you notice that she kisses differently, or that she is wanting to use sex positions that you've never done before. Of course, she may simply be exploring ideas she got from a magazine article or a friend, but big changes in what she does during sex is at least a sign that you need to pay close attention to what's going on.

It can be easy to miss the signs of a cheating wife if she's spending a lot of time with a female friend. But when your wife is out with her friend all the time, including late at night and on the weekends, there is cause to wonder what's up. Your wife's friend may be her alibi for slipping out to see another man, or there's also the possibility that the female friend is the person she's cheating on you with.

If you have reason to believe that your wife is being unfaithful, it is very important to try to get your emotions under control and then carefully gather the evidence you need to be sure of what's going on, and then decide what you want to do about it. The strong emotions that are typical when you suspect infidelity might provoke you into rushing into some action that you'll regret later on. It is best to try to stay cool and calm and carefully get the proof you need that she is actually being unfaithful.

Several ways exist to gather evidence, and many of these methods you can learn how to do yourself through online resources. It should be pointed out though that some of the resources available may not be the best choices, as you are not a professional, and it is very important to be able to collect evidence in a simple way so you don't get caught. After all, if she happens to be innocent but catches you playing private investigator, she might be offended to the point that your relationship could be destroyed. And then, you will be the "crazy, jealous, nut-job" who didn't trust her, which will not only ruin your relationship with her, but also with the mutual friends you had. You want to be very careful about how you collect evidence and in what methods you choose to use.

When you are completely sure that she's been cheating and you have proof, only then should you confront her. You also need to figure out what it is you want to try to do - rebuild the relationship or split up. It is critical that you keep your anger under control because violence or destructive behavior can result in legal trouble that will cause far more damage to your life than her infidelity did.

Ultimately, it is important to get your emotions under control and carefully evaluate whether the signs of a cheating wife that you are noticing are actual indicators of cheating, or something else, and then if cheating is taking place, what to do about it.
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For information on how to gather evidence of cheating carefully without arousing suspicion or making false accusations, please visit signs of a cheating wife.
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