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Is He The Right One? Pay Attention To The Signs!

Jan 7, 2008
Not too long ago, I saw a broken down car in front of my house. It brought to mind human nature that often keeps people from their soul mate. You see, I live close to an intersection that was under construction and had been closed temporarily. The construction workers had put up various signs announcing the road closure, starting back at the last big intersection, up to a road barrier with a "Road Closed" sign on it. They even announced the road closure every 500 meters or so with another sign.

The signs weren't very interesting in and of themselves. What was fascinating was to watch how people reacted to them. Many drivers chose to completely ignore the many posted signs and didn't stop and turn around until they were literally inches away from the road block that kept them from going further. I awoke one morning to discover one driver had tried to drive around the road block and had fell into the hole on the other side, damaging his axle.

Why is it that people refuse to read the signs? The road is closed. Nothing will change that. There is no magical power given to any of us that will open the road to us individually. It is closed whether or not we choose to acknowledge it. Yet, many people still ignore the signs, hoping things will be different for them.

Sadly, too many of us follow this same pattern in our love lives. There are telling signs along the way informing us where our relationship is headed, and may of us think if we don't acknowledge them, they will go away. Sometimes, women stay in a relationship going nowhere because of this. Other times, we drop a guy too quickly just because of a tiny bump in the road.

What types of relationship signs can you see on your relationship road? Here are a few to look for: 1. Recognize if you are compatible with each other. 2. Identify if you are both heading down a similar path in life. 3. See if universal values like honesty and fidelity are part of your relationship. 4. Know the attributes that will destroy any relationship and avoid them.

Are you prepared to look for and act on the signs you see in your relationship? Honing this simple skill will save your heart and your time as you purposefully pursue or let go of the relationship you are in. Ready to know if he is the right one? Pay attention to the signs and have the courage to act on them!
About the Author
Wondering if you have found your soul mate or a dead end? "Is He Right For Me?" is more than a compatibility test . It will show you what signs to look for and how to choose if he is the one.
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